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Welcome to Allo and Ace, where we delve into the intricate dynamics of allosexual and asexual relationships. Join us as we navigate the complexities, celebrate the diversity, and foster understanding between these two unique perspectives on love, intimacy, and connection. Whether you're allosexual, asexual, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers insight, empathy, and a safe space for exploration. We'll explore the intersections, challenges, and joys of relationships where sexual attraction isn't the only currency. Let's bridge the gap and celebrate the beauty of love in all its forms.
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AlloAndAce - 007 - Revisiting Relationships - Exploring the Why and Facing Regrets
In this episode, we delve deep into the realms of love, loss, and the profound questions that arise when faced with the fragility of life. Join us as we explore the essence of our connections with our partners and the profound impact of contemplating life without them.
We invite you to ponder the fundamental question: Why are we with our partners and as we discuss the inevitability of mortality, we confront a haunting question: What regrets would we harbor if our partners were suddenly gone? With vulnerability and honesty, we explore grief and regret, grappling with the complexities of unspoken words and unfinished chapters.
Through empathy and understanding, we offer insights and reflections to inspire you to cherish the present moment and nurture the connections that enrich your lives. In this exploration of love and loss, we discover the transformative power of introspection and the resilience of the human heart.
Tune in to this thought-provoking episode as we embark on a journey of self-discovery, embracing the beauty of love and the inevitability of change. -
AlloAndAce - 006 - Starting Over - Rebuilding Relationships
Workbook can be found HERE
In this episode, we embark on a journey of renewal and understanding in the context of allosexual and asexual relationships. Join us as we explore the challenges and opportunities faced by couples seeking to start over and rebuild their connection.
First, we delve into the unique dynamics of allosexual and asexual relationships, highlighting the importance of communication, empathy, and mutual respect. We discuss the complexities of navigating differing expectations regarding intimacy and physical affection, emphasizing the need for open dialogue and understanding.
Next, we explore practical strategies for fostering connection and rebuilding trust in the relationship. From setting boundaries to exploring alternative forms of intimacy, we offer actionable tips for creating a supportive and fulfilling partnership that honors both partners' needs and desires.
Join us as we navigate the path to new beginnings in allosexual-asexual relationships, celebrating the resilience and strength of couples committed to building a love that transcends boundaries and embraces diversity. -
AlloAndAce - 005 - Unraveling Triggers - Emotional Landmines in Relationships
TW - Sex
In this episode we answer a few questions from a listener and then we discuss Unraveling Triggers - Navigating Emotional Landmines In Relationships.
Triggers can happen at any time and you need to be prepared in order to recognize when it's happening, respond appropriately and know how to communicate through them effectively to come out on the other side. -
AlloAndAce - 004 - Asexual Relationship Fears
TW: SA briefly discussed and Sex is discussed
In this episode we discuss our fears when it comes to our asexual relationship. Is it that we will never have sex again? Dead Bedroom? Is it that our partner can't do it anymore and leave? -
AlloAndAce - 003 - Bridge of Respect
TW - This episode talks about Sex and involves talks of consent and trauma.
We discuss the discrepancy that Asexual Couples can feel when the sexual expectations don't align and someone doesn't feel sexually desired. We offer some suggestions on how you can reset intent and set healthy boundaries.
"Respect is the bridge that connects healthy boundaries with meaningful connections" -
AlloAndAce - 002 - She's Never Coming Back
When we discovered my wife is Asexual, the person she thought she was died. Can this Asexual Relationship work? Do Asexual and Allosexual relationships survive? My partner isn't sexually attracted to me.....
Customer Reviews
Thoughtful and Informative
Skyler and Jessi are wonderful human beings who are open and vulnerable in a way we should all aspire to be.
Thoughtful and thought-provoking
Ace romantic here, appreciate how honest you are with each other and us.
This podcast has helped me reflect on many of my atypical responses to intimate or near-intimate situations or dynamics over the years, so thank you very much.
I guess my question would be how do i find a partner who is okay with me being ace?
More than 50 years in a mixed orientation marriage
Wish we had the courage to talk with each other openly at the start…. but oh well Mormon, but
not anymore
We’re still making our lives work together with love
This podcast increases acceptance and understanding AND love