In this episode, we’re discussing the danger of extreme independence, and why being needy is a good thing. And in the spirit of asking for help, we're bring back our "stuck in a rut" segment. Hey, do you want to hang out in our clubhouse? Patreon is where we post outtakes, behind-the-scenes and bonus segments that don't make it into our Monday episodes. Plus, we create an entire bonus episode every month for supporters. Check it out! What you'll hear: What extreme independence and refusing to ask for help is costing us Why being part of something (and not standing out) is valuable Why verbal processing can feel vulnerable How to foster a culture of dependence within our own families and communities Our personal ruts related to work/life balance and fear of being judged Can I quote you on that? “One of the best parts of being human is community.” Maggie “What of myself can I give up? What of my identity can I give up? How can I serve this thing that’s bigger than myself?” Maggie, on questions to ask yourself about contributing to a group vs. trying to stand out “It’s healthy to have need in a relationship.” Jacey “The whole point of getting married is that you are irrevocably and inextricably dependent on each other in every single way.” Jacey Links: This episode is brought to you by Prep Dish, the company that helps you shop once, prep once, and enjoy healthy, stress-free meals all week! Start your free two week trial today. "Defining Taste" episode Thoughts, questions, comments? Find Around the Table on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog