Emma is joined by life and dating coach, and author of Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily (No Matter What), Matthew Hussey, to talk about making the first move, the perils of social media, and not being the youngest person in the room anymore. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Mathew answers a listener who wonders why men seem to be attracted to chaos. Then, Emma asks Matthew anything, from alpha males and incels, to forming real connections when dating, and when - if ever - it's ok to ghost. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about physical attraction, thoughtful dates, and proposing. Email us at [email protected] or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @thematthewhussey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices