National Best Selling Authors and BDSM experts Eden Bradley and Ann Mayburn join Lakota to discuss the problems of the "one true way" philosophy in BDSM culture, BDSM myths, obligations of BDSM writers to their readers who take in their fiction as fact, and the stereotype of the "monster Dom" or...

Denise Tucker joins the show to discuss the social and cultural imperatives to "fix" black girls and the self image message that conveys. Natural Hair movement, army regulations against natural hair and the social and economic hurdles black women have to overcome are also discussed.

Special guest Eva Morales joins in to examine anti-valentines, 50 shades of middle aged kink, online dating: the pros and cons as well as how to make it work for you, as well as the upside and downside of being sexually active as people age.