Summary In this episode of the Christian Book Blurb podcast, host Matt McChlery interviews Dr. Gary Chapman about the language of love. They discuss the importance of celebrating relationships, the difficulties in relationships, and the role of selfishness in causing problems. Dr. Chapman shares his personal experiences in marriage and how changing his attitude transformed his relationship. They also delve into the concept of love languages and how understanding and speaking each other's love languages can improve relationships. Dr. Chapman explains the five love languages and how they apply to various relationships. He also discusses the influence of Christian faith on love languages and the importance of apologizing and forgiving. Takeaways Celebrate relationships by cooperating with special days like Valentine's Day. Selfishness is a major obstacle in relationships; love requires an attitude of service. Understanding and speaking each other's love languages can greatly improve relationships. The five love languages are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Links Help keep this podcast on the web by simply buying me a coffee https://www.buymeacoffee.com/mattmcchlery Sponsor an episode of this podcast Click for Advertising info Visit Dr, Gary Chapman's website 5lovelanguages.com Visit Matt McChlery's website mattmcchlery.com Chapters 00:00 Introduction00:59 Valentine's Day and Celebrating Relationships02:30 The Difficulty of Relationships03:55 Difficulties in Marriage06:21 Changing Attitudes and Improving Relationships08:15 Reconciling Biblical Roles and Serving Each Other10:40 Discovering the Love Languages13:35 Overview of the Five Love Languages16:30 Primary Love Language and Changing Circumstances19:28 Love Languages in Various Relationships21:27 Identifying a Child's Love Language23:23 Influence of Christian Faith on Love Languages29:38 Apologizing and Forgiving in Relationships34:25 Upcoming Projects and Where to Find More Information35:23 Conclusion