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I am Jai The Gentleman and this Dear Black Gay Men Podcast.


It's a short, b******t-free step out of our comfort zone to talk about all the emotional ups-and-downs along the journey to happiness. Hopefully, this is our weekly reminder of how dope it is to be Black gay men who love Black gay men. 

Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Jai The Gentleman

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 90 Ratings

I am Jai The Gentleman and this Dear Black Gay Men Podcast.


It's a short, b******t-free step out of our comfort zone to talk about all the emotional ups-and-downs along the journey to happiness. Hopefully, this is our weekly reminder of how dope it is to be Black gay men who love Black gay men. 

    I'm a Horrible Hook-up

    I'm a Horrible Hook-up

    Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen


    This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:


    How I stood a guy up twice and why we don't put enough effort into finding value in dating.


    Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman


    Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop


    Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df


    Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

    • 11 min
    I've low key had it with "low key"

    I've low key had it with "low key"

    Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen


    This week Jai The Gentleman discusses:


    What does it mean to be "low key" and why the gworls secretly hate being bottoms.


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    Strong Bottoms: https://youtube.com/live/1N1izj92yC4?feature=share


    Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman


    Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop


    Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df


    Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-black-gay-men-podcast/id1581655281

    • 11 min
    What music do you play on a hook-up?

    What music do you play on a hook-up?

    When's the last time you listened to the music they were playing during an entanglement? It's trying to tell you something.






    Merch: dearblackgaymen.shop


    YouTube: youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen


    Support: patreon.com/dearblackgaymen

    • 10 min
    Why wait for s*x?

    Why wait for s*x?

    Question for the comments: do you wait to have sex or let it happen whenever the vibe is right


    Screenshot this episode. Tag @DearBlackGayMen in your story.


    Watch on YT: https://youtu.be/tXwT3Am06DM






    New uploads WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS


    Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9


    Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4






    ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch: https://www.dearblackgaymen.shop 


    ➡️ Become an Insider: https://youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen/join


    ➡️ Join the newsletter: http://dearblackgaymen.substack.com






    📲 Subscribe to Dear Black Gay Men Podcast


    Apple: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4


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    YT: YouTube.com/@DearBlackGayMen

    • 11 min
    Do bottoms need to be more submissive?

    Do bottoms need to be more submissive?

    Question for the comments: how do you define "submissive"?


    DBGM Live in Atlanta: https://posh.vip/e/dgbm-live-podcast-atl


    Shop DBGM Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop


    Connect with Jai The Gentleman: https://www.instagram.com/JaiTheGentleman

    • 10 min
    If you can tell me what do, you can tell me what to do

    If you can tell me what do, you can tell me what to do

    Question for the comments: what's your most dominant trait?


    Screenshot this episode, add it to your story and tag me in your answer.






    DBGM LIVE in Atlanta: dearblackgaymen.com/events/atlanta


    DBGM Merch: dearblackgaymen.com






    Connect with Jai: instagram.com/jaithegentleman


    Connect with Dear Black Gay Men: instagram.com/DearBlackGayMen

    • 9 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
90 Ratings

90 Ratings

wsguy ,

Ive Shared You With the Crew

I feel like this podcast is the voice of the black men…who aren’t perfect but we are trying our best to do the work. As a professional black gay male..I feel seen and heard. I have also shared it with all of the black males who are close to me. Keep up the work.

mallymallwp ,

Top 5 podcast

“I’ve become a daddy”, I felt like you was talking to me. That jawn was so entertaining and true… All facts! I love relatable content with transparency. Keep up the good work champ …

Ckendrick97 ,

5 stars

I’m glad I found this podcast through searching for a podcasts that fits my interests! I have a long way to go, but I’m enjoying every episode thus far. Great topics, critical thinking, and unfiltered discussions!

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