Toxic family members are on the rise, but they've been a factor since the beginning of time, as illustrated by the story of Cain and Abel. While it’s perfectly fine to connect with healthy family members, it’s essential to set boundaries with both healthy and toxic relatives to better understand our true identity. Tune in to this episode!Support the show

Did you know that agreement and participation can form a spiritual covenant? As a child, you were powerless and had no choice but to tolerate parents, family members, teachers, siblings, neighbors, and peers. However, as an adult, you gain the power and agency to make decisions and avoid uncomfortable situations. If you come from an abusive past, you may still respond like a child who feels stuck, especially if the trauma remains unresolved. Therefore, your responsibility as an adult is to he...

Did you know that "a curse without a cause shall not stand"? (Proverbs 26:2). This means that if you feel you've been tricked into sin or believe you are cursed by a family member, friend, envious person, or ex, remember that if there is no legitimate cause, the curse shall not stand. Tune in to the next episode!Support the show

Spirit Husband and Spirit Wife are described as spirits operating through family members, friends or exes to block you from your God given destiny Partner. Tune into this episode to find out more about how they operate. Support the show

God is not the author of confusion, but of peace is a verse from the Bible, 1 Corinthians 14:33. Due to this biblical truth, the devil excels at causing confusion in the minds of individuals, often infiltrating through arguments and conflicts that breed convolution. Convolution, the opposite of clarity, hampers sound decision-making concerning people, places, and things. It is imperative to distance oneself from influences that do not align with this principle, even if they initially appear p...

Guilt and shame are not attributes of God. While God calls us to be accountable and repent for our actions, He does not condemn us. Guilt is the feeling of deserving blame for one's actions, while shame involves a sense of humiliating disgrace or disrepute, often leading to a perception of being fundamentally flawed or defective.Through repentance, which is God's will, we can release ourselves from the burden of guilt and shame, as it is through this process that we can find forgiveness ...

Destiny swapping is a serious concept that many people may not be aware of, leading them to experience challenges in their lives. Also referred to as a demonic exchange, destiny swapping can occur for various reasons and through different means. It may involve someone feeling jealous of you, coveting what you possess, or seeking to trade their misfortunes for your blessings. This can manifest in ways such as hindering your marriage, fertility, career, or financial prosperity. The essence of a...

Embarking on a courageous quest of self-discovery, I, Dr. Chiaku, psychologist and former member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc , I open up about my transformative journey through and beyond the realms of being a Delta . Through a series of heartfelt reflections, I invite you to join me as I dissect the intricate web of my decision to leave—the cultural expectations, the stereotypes, and the unspoken challenges that shaped my path to freedom. Together, we'll venture into the seldom-discus...

Have  you considered that before you were in your mother's womb, your life script was designed and you actively participated in it? God is the executive producer, and life is like a movie where you are the scriptwriter. If you are not satisfied with the role you are playing in life, you can bring your concerns to our Heavenly Father. You can ask Him to review the case files and discuss how things should unfold and what should be avoided. Remember, people are like actors in this movie of...

The way people treat you reveals many things about themselves. It is a secret code that they are often not aware of. I am not referring to mistakes we make or bad moments we have; I am speaking of the underlying treatment. Many individuals lack the emotional maturity to treat someone with respect or decency if they are not fond of them. Some individuals treat others as less than human. While some people are honest, others may lack integrity. All patterns of behavior provide insights into a...

The words we believe and the words we state become epiphanies for us and self-fulfilling prophecies. Angels are connected to the words God has spoken over your life, in the same way, demons are attracted to the negative words that you speak over your life. Whatever phrase or belief you hold in your unconscious will be your guiding force. Tune into this new episode as we delve deeper into this concept. Support the show

Love ❤️ Bombing is a Narcissistic manipulative tactic used in romantic relationships or even friendships, where one person overwhelms the other with excessive displays of affection, attention, and praise in order to gain control and manipulate their emotions. It is often used to establish a deep emotional connection and make the recipient feel special and desired. However, love bombing is not a genuine expression of love, but rather a form of emotional manipulation that can lead to feelings...

Hello, lovely people    Today’s episode will address detecting narcissism. Many people understand narcissism from a personal standpoint but not many have hands on personal and clinical experience, such as myself.  Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a serious condition and the organization of the narcissistic mind creates a pathological lifestyle, rendering narcissistic supply. Let us delve deeper into this latest episode, to understand how to better detect the pathology revolving around...

African American men are some of the most talked about men. Many would like to understand the enigma behind their condition. From success, failures, marital status, etc I searched high and low and found nothing on the internet, YouTube nor social media. Most likely because, people are afraid of the backlash. After studying African American men and gathering my own research, I decided to create this episode, to better showcase what I have learned about them both, spiritually and...

African American men are some of the most talked about men. Many would like to understand the enigma behind their condition. From success, failures, marital status, etc I searched high and low and found nothing on the internet, YouTube nor social media. Most likely because, people are afraid of the backlash. After studying African American men and gathering my own research, I decided to create this episode, to better showcase what I have learned about them both, spiritually and...

Know Thy Self. Yes, then learn how to protect yourself. Spiritual boundaries are very important because it determines your life condition. Move away from things unequally yoked to who you are, no matter how small or big.  Tune into this short episode which discusses how to protect yourself. 

Everyone is talking about narcissism today but most of these so called experts have no mental health background. Doesn’t make them totally wrong in their analysis but they tend to stigmatize and rarely discuss the root causes of narcissism. In addition, I believe mental health providers have also failed to discuss the root causes of narcissism and the different types of narcissists. For example, covert narcissism and altruistic narcissism. If you believe all narcissism is overt and...

As you may or may not know, the devil is extraordinarily clever. However, as children of God, we are to be as clever as a serpent.  Be ye therefore wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16) How can one be as clever as a serpent, if one cannot identify the serpent, nor the serpent’s ways or his devices? The only way is, to be aware and to understand the nature of the serpent.  Tune in to this new episode and learn the devil’s schemes 

Angels were created for God’s glory. Many of them have the luxury of worshipping God at his throne and protecting the gates of heaven, while other angels are sent to earth to assist humans. However, we rarely hear about angels 😇 and many people do not know how to work with angels.  With God’s permission, you can work with your angels and learn more about the angels assigned to you at birth.  Tune into this new episode and learn about the different classes of angels.  

Defining Abuse     Abuse is defined as any action that intentionally harms or injures another person. In short, someone who purposefully harms another, in any way is committing abuse. There are many kinds of abuse encountered by adults, including: physical abusepsychological abuserapesexual assaultverbal abuseelder abusefinancial abusespiritual abuseemotional abuse Abuse usually starts with earlier caregivers and the enemy uses parents and those who were put in your life to guide, coach and...

“Your Vibe Attracts Your Vibe” or is it that your spiritual tribe represents your vibe? Either way, knowing your spiritual tribe is important for many reasons. For one, everyone belongs to a tribe. Knowing your spiritual tribe will make life a lot easier. Listen to the episode to determine your spiritual tribe.

Many non professionals are talking about Narcissism today. It has become a popular topic, due to the high ratio of people suffering from this condition. We are now living in societies that promotes self-centeredness, so reinforcement is inevitable.  Due to many citizens in society addressing narcissism and leaving out the actual mental disorder and where it stems from, I decided to explain the condition from the diagnostic criteria, research and clinical experience. Description:...

Many non professionals are talking about Narcissism today. It has become a popular topic, due to the high ratio of people suffering from this condition. We are now living in societies that promotes self-centeredness, so reinforcement is inevitable.  Due to many citizens in society addressing narcissism and leaving out the actual mental disorder and where it stems from, I decided to explain the condition from the diagnostic criteria, research and clinical experience. Description:...

Giving value to yourself can be a complex concept for some, being that we live in a world 🌎 full of validation cues, from social media, friends and family. However, God is love and you are made in the image of God, which means, you are also Love ❤️  Connecting with your value is about knowing who you are and understanding God’s image of you. When you first seek the kingdom of God, all things will be added to you.  Dr. Chiaku Hanson  @drchihanson  www.drpsychologyhealing.com  Email:...