523 episodes

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. 
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's  lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. 
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. 
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re  professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong‪?‬ Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 3K Ratings

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. 
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's  lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. 
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. 
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re  professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    DBM: Death to Your 20s

    DBM: Death to Your 20s

    This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
    Engaged before moving abroadFuneral themed birthdayParents blaming you for their divorceDBT-New Hobby
    -Making Work Friends

    Follow Us!
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    • 49 min
    FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: My Friend Has Bad Breath

    FF: But Am I Wrong? Results: My Friend Has Bad Breath

    Meghan and Melisa share the result from But Am I Wrong: My Friend Has Bad Breath
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    • 31 min
    BAIW: Ghosting Your Therapist

    BAIW: Ghosting Your Therapist

    But Am I Wrong:
    Meghan: 99% of TikToks are stagedMelisa: The President is not a celebrity But Are You Wrong:
    Borrowing money from your anniversary fundNot missing going to therapy But Are They Wrong
    Savory FigMichael MeydenWrite In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com
    Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/
    Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me
    Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme
    Follow Us:
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    Follow Meghan:
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/
    https://twitter.com/meghanrienks
    https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks
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    • 1 hr 9 min
    DBM: I Don't Want to Get Married

    DBM: I Don't Want to Get Married

    This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
    Attachment styles and datingParents still parenting even though I'm in collegeMaking friends at workRacist BossFollow Us!
    @meghanrienks
    instagram.com/meghanrienks
    https://twitter.com/meghanrienks
    @sheisnotmelissa
    instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa
    https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa
    @meghanandmelisa
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf
    Need Advice?
    dontblameme.show
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976

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    • 58 min
    But Am I Watching Results: This Is Me... Now: A Love Story

    But Am I Watching Results: This Is Me... Now: A Love Story

    Meghan and Melisa share the results from the But Am I Watching episode of Jennifer Lopez's This Is Me... Now: A Love Story.
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    • 31 min
    BAIW: My Friend Has Bad Breath

    BAIW: My Friend Has Bad Breath

    But Am I Wrong:
    Melisa - Don't Bring Babies on a Plane Unless It's an Emergency Meghan - Men Shouldn't Be Doctors
    But Are You Wrong:
    Telling a friend about their breathMoving out of a terrible situation
    But Are They Wrong
    Judge Robert AdrianKellogg's CEO
    Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com
    Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/
    Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me
    Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme

    Follow Us:
    https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/
    https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/
    Follow Meghan:
    https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/
    https://twitter.com/meghanrienks
    https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks
    Follow Melisa:
    https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/
    https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions
    https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa

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    • 1 hr 15 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
3K Ratings

3K Ratings

niknakpattywak99 ,

if you haven’t listened yet, we have beef

this is absolutely my favorite podcast in the world! meghan and melisa are the wisest and most profound philosophers of our time. they not only provide flawless advice but they also bring us laughter, joy, and community! if they had a cult i would join 🫱🏾‍🫲🏼🤝🏾

t_squared15 ,

Longtime listener

I love all editions of the podcast. I love the differences between Don’t Blame Me and But Am I Wrong. Meghan and Melissa are the best and I look forward to these podcasts every week.

Steffers33 ,

Holy Ads

I don’t mind some but they are just so long.

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