In this episode John Baku gives advice on: - John's overview of FetLife (08:40) - Why John introduced FetLife to the world (10:52) - How FetLife has evolved and where it is today (19:23) - The kink community structure, and why people are interested in it (20:35) - Is FetLife based on personality and interests? (29:54) - Changing fetishes over time (32:00) - Discussing different types of fetishes (32:55) - The journey of sexual exploration and the FetLife lifestyle (37:52) - Approaching kink style activities and events (43:30) - FetLife's 2012 "naming abuser" issue and the legal parameters of identifying abuse (46:05) - What else people should know about FetLife (52:48) - Typical objections to the kink lifestyle and FetLife (54:10) - The best place to connect with John and FetLife (57:34) GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time