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Discover the power of mental arousal in Episode 8 of the Embodied Love Lounge Podcast, where Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael explore the nuances of your erotic mind that shape our intimate relationships. This episode illuminates the vital components of arousal beyond the physical—focusing on emotional and mental stimulation that can transform your sexual experiences. Learn how cultural and personal beliefs influence your arousal and find out practical ways to tap into your erotic mind, enhancing intimacy and satisfaction in your personal life.

What You'll Learn:


00:00 - An introduction to understanding mental arousal.


00:28 - The significance of mental arousal in balancing your sexual life.


02:06 - Insights into how mental fantasies can enhance arousal.


03:15 - How to confront and move beyond societal and personal barriers to desire.


05:18 - The importance of nurturing your erotic mind for deeper relationship connections.


07:39 - Effective strategies to enhance your mental arousal for more fulfilling experiences.


10:27 - How to identify and utilize your personal arousal blueprint.


14:11 - Tips for overcoming inhibitions that limit your sexual expression and enjoyment.


16:38 - Understanding how desires evolve in long-term relationships and what it means for you.


19:27 - Creative ways to use fantasies to maintain excitement within monogamy.


22:09 - A sneak peek into upcoming topics and a special invitation from Dr. Saida.

Have you ever wondered if it's really true that men want sex more than women? Join us on this episode of the EmbodiedLove Podcast as Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael delve into this provocative topic. We'll unravel the layers of truth behind this age-old assumption, challenging everything you thought you knew about desire, arousal, and the complex interplay between gender and sexuality. Prepare to have your assumptions turned upside down and explore how personal experiences, cultural influences, and biological factors intricately shape our sexual behaviors.

Key Points You'll Discover:


00:22 - Introduction to the common misconception about male and female sexual desire.


01:28 - Real-life insights on the impact of mental health on libido.


03:59 - Explanation of different types of arousal and how they influence sexual desire.


07:27 - Exploration of how cultural norms affect sexual expression and desire.


09:05 - Discussion on attachment styles and how they relate to sexual desire and relationship dynamics.


14:32 - How personal and societal expectations shape our sexual desires and experiences.


18:02 - Strategies for fostering a healthy sexual desire within oneself and in relationships.


22:38 - Examination of a groundbreaking speed dating study that challenges traditional roles in sexual attraction dynamics.



Dive into the fascinating world of sexual desire with us! This episode isn't just a discussion; it's an invitation to transform how you understand and experience your deepest desires. By uncovering the real influences behind our sexual behaviors, you'll gain insights that could revolutionize your intimate relationships and personal well-being. Don't miss out on this journey to decode the myths and discover the nuanced truths about what ignites our passions. Listen now, and let's start a conversation that could change the way you think about desire forever.

Curious about turning self-pleasure into a powerful meditation to enhance bedroom skills? How can mastering this intimate practice boost your sexual confidence, improve communication, and deepen pleasure in your relationships? Find out in this compelling episode.



Dive deep into the art of masturbation with hosts Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida Désilets in this enlightening episode. Uncover the secrets and benefits of self-pleasure that society often overlooks. Whether you're new to exploring your body or seeking to deepen your existing practices, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice tailored just for you.



What You'll Gain from This Episode:




Overcoming Stigma: Learn how to break free from the myths and cultural stigmas surrounding masturbation, opening the door to a healthier and more fulfilling sex life.


Enhanced Well-Being: Discover the ancient and modern understanding of how regular self-pleasure can boost your vitality, mental health, and overall happiness.


Deeper Self-Connection: Explore the profound impact of a positive self-relationship through self-pleasure and how it can improve your interactions with others.


Understanding Societal Influences: Gain insights into how external views have shaped our understanding of masturbation and find empowerment in personal reclamation.


Sensory Engagement: We'll guide you on how to enhance your safety and well-being by fully engaging your senses, enriching your everyday experiences.


Practical Guidance: Participate in a gentle, guided introduction to mindful self-touch and internal awareness, setting the foundation for a transformative self-pleasure practice.



Join us for a journey that promises not just to inform, but to transform how you view and engage with one of the most personal aspects of human existence. Tune in to redefine your pleasure practice and embrace a more joyful and satisfying life.

How to Insert Male Member into Female Member? is Google's 3rd most asked question on the topic of s*x and intimacy.

Have a listen as Dr. Saida Desilets and Aaron Michael (MA) introduce you to SUCTION S*X technology and give you a whole new take on penetration, pleasure and making love.

This is the s*x education you've been missing.

SUCTION S*X is a trademarked, scientifically backed technology that is revolutionizing the way the world makes love, eliminating penetration anxiety, performance anxiety, pain, numbness, and making intimacy simple, creative, fun and adventurous.

These are not the generic answers you'll find in your favorite magazine. Instead, you'll find practical solutions that will leave your mind ring with excitement to go out and try that which you simply won't find elsewhere. Get ready for what is the new wave in cutting edge, sex education.

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"How to Make her C*m?" is Google's second most asked question on the topic of s*x and intimacy.

Have a listen as Dr. Saida Desilets and Aaron Michael (MA) tackle this important topic and satisfy your curiosity, bringing you the latest science-based, tried-&-true answers to your question.

These are not the generic answers you'll find in your favorite magazine. Instead, you'll find practical solutions that will leave your mind ring with excitement to go out and try that which you simply won't find elsewhere. Get ready for what is the new wave in cutting edge, sex education.

The video featured here is an excerpt from the full 1 hour explicit episode that is only featured inside our Embodied Love Lounge membership due to the nature of the content & our desire to leave things unedited, raw, direct, and yes, explicit.

"Where is the G-Spot?" is Google's #1 most asked question on the topic of s*x and intimacy.

Have a listen as Dr. Saida Desilets and Aaron Michael (MA) dive into this hotly debated topic.

Does it exist? Where is it? Do only certain people have them? How is it stimulated?

Look no further to find the latest science-based, tried-&-true answers to this epic question.

These are not the generic answers you'll find in your favorite magazine. Instead, you'll find practical solutions that will leave your mind ring with excitement to go out and try that which you simply won't find elsewhere. Get ready for what is the new wave in cutting edge, sex education.

The video featured here on YouTube is a short excerpt from the full 1 hour explicit episode that is only featured inside our Embodied Love Lounge membership due to the nature of the content & our desire to leave things unedited, raw, direct, and yes, explicit.