MAKE SURE YOU STAY FOR THE END WHERE WE FORGIVE AND RELEASE in order to walk in FREEDOM from these SPIRITS! In Part 2 of our deep dive into the Jezebel and Ahab spirits, we’re going beyond awareness and into action. If you've recognized the oppressive hold these spirits have on your marriage—or if you feel like the patterns of control, manipulation, or spiritual complacency are keeping you from true freedom—this episode is for you. Today, we confront the strongholds directly, uncovering how...

In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most challenging but essential topics in marriage restoration: exposing and breaking the Jezebel and Ahab spirits operating within relationships. Many couples struggle without understanding the underlying spiritual influences driving division, control, and passivity in their marriage. If you’re exhausted from feeling like you’re the only one fighting for God’s will in your marriage, or if you’ve hit a ceiling in your relationship, this episode...

In this episode, we dive deep into the spiritual and emotional void that many marriages experience when spouses fail to live according to God’s design. We explore how missing moments, unmet expectations, and brokenness create a painful gap—leaving spouses confused, hurt, and struggling to find healing. Through biblical truths, we’ll uncover how this “void” isn’t just about what was done wrong, but about who we were meant to be for one another. We’ll also confront the dangers of willful...

In this episode of The Established Family Podcast, we tackle a tough question: Can your marriage survive an affair and other morally degrading behaviors? Sin takes many forms, but God’s grace and the power of resurrection are greater. When we invite God into the mess, He can bring clarity, healing, and hope—even when it seems impossible. Join me as we explore: A powerful story of a husband who found new vision and hope through prayer and fasting. Why understanding the death and...

Idolizing Your Marriage Leads to Brokenness and Adopting the World's False Labels In this powerful episode of The Established Family Podcast, we confront a dangerous pattern that is tearing marriages apart: ..."idolizing your spouse and adopting the world’s false labels for sin." When we place our spouse or marriage on a pedestal, we set ourselves up for disappointment and brokenness. Worse yet, the world often offers counterfeit solutions, giving sin new names and labels that sound...

In this episode, we tackle a critical topic that could be secretly unraveling your marriage: chaos. Does your marriage feel like it's caught in a cycle of constant turmoil? You may be dealing with more than just conflict—you may be addicted to chaos. Today, we're exposing the traps that keep couples stuck in dysfunction and offering a path to freedom. We’ll take a deep dive into what I call the "Five Faces of Chaos," showing how these forces manifest in your marriage and how they block...

In this episode, we dive deep into what active restoration and waiting look like in marriage. Just like in health and fitness, where active recovery is essential for progress, the same applies to your relationship. If you're passively waiting for change, you're missing the key to true healing and restoration. We’ll unpack how a lack of urgency is rooted in a lack of peace, and how this leads to anxiety, misfocus, and prayerlessness. Using the powerful formula found in Philippians...

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of the "manufactured marriage"—a relationship built on soothing mechanisms and surface-level appearances rather than God's true design for covenant and purpose. Are you merely creating an illusion of family without building a true foundation? Discover how we often use marriage to soothe our pain, boredom, and addictions, missing the deeper calling God has for us. We'll explore the scriptural truths that reveal how God's purpose for marriage goes...

In this episode of The Established Family Show, we dive deep into the heart of what restoration truly means in the context of marriage. For many, the pain and trauma of a broken relationship can feel overwhelming, but God’s plan for your marriage goes beyond the trauma you’ve experienced. Restoration is more than just fixing what's broken—it’s about reclaiming what God originally designed for your marriage. We explore biblical truths that redefine restoration: the call to return, to make...

In this first episode of The Established Family Show, we confront a difficult but necessary truth: your marriage isn't too broken for God to restore—it’s captured. Together, we’ll uncover the spiritual strongholds that have led to the destruction and dysfunction in your home. Using biblical principles and Hebrew word pictures, we’ll show how captivity is a spiritual battle that stems from giving access to the enemy. You’ll learn to reframe the brokenness, identify the root cause of your...