Episodes
In this episode, Kim interviews former evangelical pastor Brian Recker and discusses his journey of self-discovery amid political shifts during Donald Trump's rise. Brian reflects on leaving his pastoral role during the COVID-19 pandemic, reevaluating his beliefs, and advocating for LGBTQ+ rights within Christianity. This episode emphasizes authenticity and embracing diversity in religious contexts.  Here's a sneak peek into what they discuss: Brian's transformation and self-discovery...
Published 04/11/24
After Kim heard Dr. Christine Cocchiola on the world-famous leading narcissistic expert Dr. Ramani's podcast, she had to talk to Dr. Cocchiola, and you'll understand once you listen to the podcast. Their conversation goes deep into understanding coercive control, narcissism, and how it affects individuals, especially in the challenging landscape of family court battles. Dr. Cocchiola shares her advocacy journey, drawing from personal and professional experiences. Throughout the podcast, they...
Published 03/26/24
In this "Flip Your Lid with Kim Honeycutt" episode, join us as Kim interviews Dr. Carol George, a pioneer and expert in attachment theory, as she unravels the depths of attachment patterns and the interplay of trauma. They explore each attachment pattern: secure, ambivalent, and avoidant alongside lesser-known dismissive failed blocked mourning and preoccupied with suffering. Gain insights into adult manifestations and the interplay of biology, trauma, and defense mechanisms. They also...
Published 03/05/24
In this episode, Kim Honeycutt interviews Liz Cooledge Jenkins as they explore religious trauma within the church, stressing the need for inclusive leadership and challenging the dominance of an all-white male perspective in theological discussions. It emphasizes diverse interpretations, values scripture in deconstruction/reconstruction, and addresses the pervasive issue of abuse in religious communities. Guest Liz Cooledge Jenkins discusses her book, "Nice Churchy Patriarchy: Reclaiming...
Published 02/13/24
In this podcast, Kim Honeycutt reconnects with Ana Del Castillo, a Women’s Rightness Expert and Certified Empowerment Coach with over 20 years of experience galvanizing women to embrace authenticity in their lives. This episode delves into pivotal moments in Ana's life that have contributed to her journey of self-discovery. The conversation navigates challenges within therapeutic communities, shedding light on the continuous process of self-awareness. Ana's wealth of experiences emphasizes...
Published 01/23/24
Join Kim as she talks with Tim Whitaker, the brilliant mind behind the New Evangelicals. Tim shares his experience within the Church and how he has used his deconstruction and reconstruction to assist and comfort many with religious trauma. Tim shares about his visit to the Asbury revival and does a deep dive into why he does what he does for those marginalized within the Church. This is an intense and necessary conversation! About Tim: Growing up, Tim always felt at home in evangelical...
Published 06/06/23
Michael Shahan is the real deal. His vulnerability, combined with his vast insight into the world of psychology, including the Enneagram, allowed for a fun and informative conversation. Join Kim and Michael as they nerd out on Polyvagal Theory with the Enneagram, couples therapy, and how to be an approachable psychotherapist. Basically, this is free therapy! Enjoy! About Michael: Michael Shahan is a licensed Marriage and Family therapist best known for utilizing the Enneagram in his practice...
Published 04/25/23
We (Larissa and Kim) had the absolute privilege of interviewing Brian McLaren. As many of you know, Brian is a well-known spiritual influencer who has made significant contributions to the world of faith and spirituality. In this episode, we had the privilege of sitting down with him to discuss his life's work, including his four stages of faith development. We dive deep into who Brian is as a person, his books, and his passion for creating a new kind of Christianity that is inclusive,...
Published 04/11/23
Attorney Lori “Mouth of the South” Murray and Kim sit down and explore Lori’s firsthand experience with the Alex Murdaugh trial. Lori has been on CourtTv and many other media outlets, helping us understand the many facets of this notorious S.C. trial! Lori was in the courtroom during the Murdaugh trial, giving us an idea of the climate. Join them as they discuss the legal and psychological aspects of the Murdaugh family and trial! This powerful podcast combines the two professional worlds...
Published 03/14/23
Kim and Tasha Hunter dive into a comparison of the trauma system between the church and the military. Tasha provides her personal account as a Black lesbian who is former military and someone who was deeply entrenched in the church system. They Discuss:   Surviving and Thriving Psychedelic Assisted Therapy Importance of Community Recognizing trauma within authority figuresDon’t ask, don’t tell psychological damage Also, please note there is some discussion of sexual assault within the...
Published 02/28/23
Join Kevin Sweeney, host of The Church Needs Therapy podcast and author of The Making of a Mystic: My Journey with Mushrooms, My Life as a Pastor, and Why It's Okay for Everyone to Relax" and "The Joy of Letting Go" as he and Kim discuss the ingredients of surrender and how it might not be what we think it is. Kevin is a calm, compassionate man whose perspective on his relationship with God is refreshing and very encouraging. His new book is fire! Check out our podcast and grab his new book,...
Published 02/07/23
Larissa and I had the absolute honor of interviewing David Hayward, who you probably know as the NakedPastor! David is known for his expansive artwork that depicts the unfortunate experience of many people in parts of the Christian world, and he does it in a way that is incredibly healing. David lives in Canada with his wife and grown children. His experience in the church and in the world as the NakedPastor is intriguing and inspiring. And a side note, David will be here in Charlotte, NC...
Published 11/02/22
Mako and Kim discuss his expansive knowledge about abortion, including his book Abortion Policy and Christian Social Ethics in the United States. Mako shares about his Asian-American culture and his love for Jesus. Mako gives a refreshing and thought-provoking description of restorative versus retributive justice. Mako is the Director of the Anastasis Center and schools Kim about its meaning. Mako Nagasawa (BA/BS Stanford University; MTS Holy Cross Greek Orthodox Seminary) is the Director of...
Published 10/19/22
Christian, Gay, Rejected, & Repurposed with Mike Maeshiro Kim Honeycutt interviews the amazing Mike Maeshiro. In this episode, they discuss Mike's involvement with Bethel Church and how he's been treated since he came out. Mike discusses each of the clobber passages and declobbers them! Mike shares very openly about how much he didn't want to be marginalized and mistreated by people for simply being who he is and how he continues to resolve the pain of being rejected by Christians. Mike's...
Published 09/27/22
Kim had the absolute privilege to sit and speak with K.J. Ramsey. K.J. is a highly skilled counselor who is also the author of many books. Her most recent one is The Lord is My Courage. Kim and K.J. discuss:  Prayer vs. Autonomic Nervous SystemDismissive vs. Safe PeopleChronic pain & TraumaResiliency & MentalizationModalities of Therapy & Grounding Techniques And much more! Basically, it is free therapy! K.J.'s Bio: K.J. Ramsey is a trauma-informed licensed professional counselor...
Published 09/06/22
Kim and Stuart have an informative and humorous conversation about Stuart’s life, trauma, and recovery. Stuart shares openly about how his abandonment may have resulted in his dismissive nature towards women. Today he is intentional about listening to women, including having a podcast dedicated to him being a listener! -Trauma & Beauty of Adoption -Sobriety & Recovery -God as Big Mama -Stuart gets free therapy from Kim -Cults & Churches -Loving everyone, including ourselves...
Published 08/23/22
Interviewee: Meg Carber, RD LDN CNSC (she/her) Meg Carber is a Registered Dietitian, but more importantly, she is a compassionate and trauma-informed woman who cares deeply about her profession and all humans. Meg shares her journey of transformation from a cognitive behavioral practitioner to being an embodied recovery practitioner. Meg and Kim discuss: Polyvagal and Eating DisordersTrauma and new ways to view eating disordersMaladaptive behavior and traumaTop Down & Bottom Up...
Published 08/09/22
In this episode, Kim interviews the amazing Danté Stewart as they discuss what it means to be Shoutin’ in the Fire, his upcoming book, and so much more. Loss and Grief Learning to Love YourselfReconciling our Past and Present Effects of Racism on Metal HealthTaking Control of The NarrativeGrief That Expands UsInjustice and Indifference AssimilationDismantling The Idea of White JesusMarginalized Communities Being Free DOG - Discipline, Originality, and Grit Danté Stewart is a minister,...
Published 07/26/22
Thomas Floyd, LPC, and Kim Honeycutt, LCAS, are interviewed by Producer/Director (who just happens to be Kim’s wife) Larissa Miller about spiral dynamics, McLaren’s 4 Stages of Church, and how our view of authority can indicate where we are on our growth path. Brian McLaren’s 4 church stages and spiral dynamics give all of us a barometer to see where we are and where our church of choice may be in our quest to be good leaders and inclusive humans. How big our EGO is can be an excellent...
Published 07/12/22
In this episode, Kim and Benjamin talk openly about Roe v. Wade and what we are doing as Christ-followers that is repelling people more than repairing. Be ready to hear how Ben remains authentic instead of fitting in. *Roe v. Wade *The Church *What is Sin? *Jesus and His Sermon on The Mount *People Pleasing and Preoccupied Attachment *The Bible in Our Culture and Benjamin's Favorite Passage - Philippians 2 *Connection to Self and Shame *Rejection, Fear, and Love *The Ego and The...
Published 06/29/22
Join Kim and Larissa as they explore the core fear of each enneagram type and provide spiritual practices to assist each of us in connecting more to our true essence. The Enneagram is a system of personality typing that describes patterns in how people interpret the world and manage their emotions. It is a spiritual rooted system that allows us to see how we interact with ourselves and to identify defensive mechanisms that cause us to subconsciously keep people at a distance.  Kim (8)...
Published 06/14/22
Flip Your Lid podcast is dedicated to exploring different therapeutic modalities. In this episode, Kim has the privilege of interviewing Amanda Ferrat who is an advanced Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) practitioner. EFT is an alternative therapeutic method to treat physical pain and emotional distress. Amanda Ferrat is the founder of Value Yourself Counseling. Amanda took the time to share with us about her personal journey to wellness and how EFT tapping allowed her to sail to a whole new...
Published 05/25/22
Join Kim Honeycutt as she interviews Kevin Sweeney, host of The Church Needs Therapy podcast and author of "The Making of a Mystic: My Journey with Mushrooms," "My Life as a Pastor," and "Why It's Okay for Everyone to Relax" and "The Joy of Letting Go" as they discuss Ego vs. Self; Translative Spirituality vs. Transformative Spirituality; Cheerleading Preaching vs. Soul Feeding Talks, and so much more.  Quote: ". . . the ego does not need encouragement, it needs a eulogy." KEVIN SWEENEY is...
Published 04/05/22
Kim had the privilege of interviewing Noelle Toscano about her life in and out of the church as a woman. Noelle boldly explains how she was limited from using her God-given gifts within the church and how she rose above the discrimination. Noelle is the Director of Ezer Rising. Noelle Toscano is an author, speaker, and the Director of Ezer Rising, a nonprofit organization that focuses on women's roles and rights within church, society, and marriage. Noelle lives in Wilmington, Delaware...
Published 03/22/22