132 episodes

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester
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Girl On Top: ShallonXO Shallon Lester & Studio71

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 921 Ratings

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester
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    Evil Week Preview: Why Kindness Is For Losers

    Evil Week Preview: Why Kindness Is For Losers

    Work hard? Stay humble? How about…no. I’ll get you pumped for Evil Week with a sinister pep talk AGAINST kindness and hard work why you should flip to the dark side. Join me for the rest of Evil Week starting Oct 25, link below! 


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    • 48 min
    How To Stand Up For Yourself

    How To Stand Up For Yourself

    If you’ve done some changing, growing, or even just WANT to, you may encounter pushback from people who need you to stay predictable and small. I’ll tell you how to stand firm in your beliefs and be true to yourself without destroying all your relationships! 


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    • 42 min
    How To Weed Out Fake Friends

    How To Weed Out Fake Friends

    This week's episode dives deeper into a recent YouTube video about friends who tell you want you want to hear…even when it’s not in your best interest. I’ll help you smoke out who’s doing this for the wrong reasons, and give some tips on how to trust yourself over anyone!


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    • 46 min
    When You Know Better But You Can’t DO Better

    When You Know Better But You Can’t DO Better

    There’s nothing worse than perfectly understanding why a guy is bad for you… But missing him anyway. I’ll tell you why it’s ok that you can’t snap your fingers and be over it, and give you a psychological trick to ACTUALLY get over it!

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    • 35 min
    Summer Reinvention: How To Start Fresh

    Summer Reinvention: How To Start Fresh

    It’s the perfect time to clean out our emotional closets and rebrand…but how? I’ll tell you how to leave things behind and cut out situations and people who are no longer serving you.  

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    • 43 min
    Summer Reinvention: How To Stop Trying To Save Everyone

    Summer Reinvention: How To Stop Trying To Save Everyone

    This week we're going to get inspiration from an unlikely place: Top Gun: Maverick. Yes, the movie. I'll tell you how one character sparked an ah-ha moment about what to do when a guy needs saving!  

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    • 42 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
921 Ratings

921 Ratings

ringofthenibelung ,

One of the best podcasts on here!

I don’t remember exactly when but sometime around 2021, the YouTube algorithm suggested Shallon Lester’s videos to me. I have been watching them for the past couple of years. Starting March of last year, I lost my home which I loved and was horribly depressed. Watching her videos helped take my mind off of it in addition to providing me with important advice and life lessons. Starting around November, I began listening to the podcast as well. It’s not an exaggeration to say that it has changed my life for the better. I would highly recommend it to anyone!

haley09999 ,

Queen Behavior

Shallon teaches all the lessons we NEED as women even if we don’t want to hear them. She gets straight to the point and raises our value as women! Obsessed xx

Michelle (meesh ,

How I start my day

I listen to all your podcast when I’m going to work or taking a long drive. You motivate me and give me a new perspective when I feel stuck. My go to podcast!
This recent episode was EVERYTHING i needed to hear. Thank you for your insight and knowledge. I love you for it alllll
Grace is being gentle on my heart and others. Loveeee that

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