Description
How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see.
Julia takes us through confusing early fantasies to landing that first girl-kiss to realizing what it means to love people with vaginas in all their gender presentations. Now she wants to start exploring anal play.
Julia is a 27-year-old cisgender woman. She describes herself as white, queer, monogamous, and she doesn’t have kids. She still gets a regular period and describes her body as tall and thin.
Julia has a non-binary partner, so we get to talk about how she navigates her partner’s gender dysphoria.
Bookmark topics:
Dating a non-binary partner Navigating dysmorphia Early fantasies Voyeurism and exhibitionism Queer/pansexual identity in the bedroom Losing lesbian virginity Learning what you like Butt stuff—how to start exploring anal play
The Lowdown: favorite sex toys, strap-on penetration, c**t stimulation, masturbation Resources:
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Anal toy - https://www.sheboptheshop.com/fuze-quattro.html
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Published 04/11/24
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