Researcher, TikTok sensation and author Dr Esmé Louise James discusses the evolution of kink plus a few simple ways to bring more spicy play into your sex life.    WANT MORE FROM ESME? To hear today's full interview, where she discusses sex taboos to stop believing...search for Extra Healthy-ish wherever you get your pods. Find out more about Esmé’s book Kinky History (Pantera Press, $34.99) here. For her brilliant TikTok advice see here, catch her on Instagram @esme.louisee or see her site here. For her last Extra Healthy-ish chat see here.    WANT MORE BODY + SOUL?  Online: Head to bodyandsoul.com.au for your daily digital dose of health and wellness. On social: Via Instagram at @bodyandsoul_au or Facebook. Or, TikTok here. Got an idea for an episode? DM host Felicity Harley on Instagram @felicityharley.  In print: Each Sunday, grab Body+Soul inside The Sunday Telegraph (NSW), the Sunday Herald Sun (Victoria), The Sunday Mail (Queensland), Sunday Mail (SA) and Sunday Tasmanian (Tasmania).  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.