Today on the podcast we will be discussing a super important topic! Gena (pronounced "Jenna") Jaffe is a mom and lawyer. She and her wife did reciprocal IVF for both of their kiddos - her wife's eggs in Gena's oven. While Gena is a lawyer, she came to learn that there are so many steps involved in the parenting process for a lesbian couple so Gena created a business to help educate the LGBTQIA+ community. Her new business, Connecting Rainbows, is an organization that helps those in the LGBTQIA+ community start, grow and protect their families by offering legal and fertility resources. They provide a directory of attorneys, fertility clinics, surrogacy agencies, and a blog and vlog to learn from real families and experts. You can find her at connectingrainbows.org. Before Gena comes on, Jamie discusses a mysterious phone call with Doug and they recap another exciting MAFS episode! 22:15 - Welcome to HMCP, Gena!  24:12 - How did you discover that you were a lesbian and that your wife was the one? 38:57 - After you met your wife, Jordana, eventually you decided that you wanted to get married and have a family together...what was that conversation like because obviously you would need help since you are both of the same sex? 40:41 - Can you explain reciprocal IVF a little bit more? 47:00 - How do you address the fact that you’re both moms and does one take more of a parental role? How do you present this topic to your children? 49:41 - Do you and your wife know who the donor is for your children? 56:30 - Gena explains how Connecting Rainbows helps people learn what hoops they will need to go through. 59:58 - What does the plus in LGBTQIA+ stand for? Stay tuned for another awesome episode next week! 😊 Connecting Rainbows Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/connectingrainbowsorg/ Gena’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/genajaffe/  Connecting Rainbows Website: https://connectingrainbows.org/hello/ And thank you to our sponsors: ThirdLove - Go to thirdlove.com/HMCP to find your perfect-fitting bra… and get 20% off your first purchase!  June's Journey - Download June’s Journey free today on the Apple App Store or Google Play. RebateKey - Just go to RebateKey.com to start earning cashback today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices