We recently received an email from someone who apologised for her delayed reply: she had ‘disappeared into the things’. HARD RELATE. We are constantly in danger of disappearing into the things: the sadness, the panic, the phone. So in this episode we talk about the strange things that are happening with our sense of self at the moment… plus all the mini identity shifts that send us from Diary Of An Edwardian Lady Lady (‘Gosh, is that a Golden Crested Bum Puncher?) to Bleeding Heart to Hard Man in a matter of seconds. And if that’s not disconcerting enough, run through Midult micro-downers….like staggering into your bedroom at 11pm and realising you stripped the bed earlier in the day. Bastards. And when metaphorical instability becomes literal instability. Oof.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices