Becoming Enough: Empowering Black Sheep to Remember Their Worth Black Sheep Experience

In this episode, I wanted to talk about all the ways mainstream society characterizes black sheep.



We're often told that we're lazy, not serious, unsuccessful, selfish, "take the easy way out," inherently bad...the list goes on.



I wanted to make some time to chat about this on the pod because this characterization stops so many black sheep from realizing that they are black sheep (thus preventing them from healing their worthiness wounds).



These stereotypes are so inaccurate, so I decided to set the record straight.



The 4 main stereotypes I'll talk about today are:



1. Black sheep are unsuccessful in their careers and lives.

2. Black sheep are out-of-control, constantly rebellious, and inherently bad.

3. Black sheep are lazy, selfish, and "take the easy way out" in life.

4. Black sheep lack social skills and don't know how society works.



I also touch on why it's so important for black sheep to make peace with being misunderstood and why the phrase "let them" has become a major part of my healing journey.



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About Becoming Enough:



The Becoming Enough podcast teaches you how to liberate yourself from your limiting beliefs and worthiness wounds. 

You’ll find discussions that validate your internal experience as a black sheep and dive deep into the journey of self-actualization and sovereignty. 

Roshni, your host, wholeheartedly believes that high self-worth is your ticket to true liberation. If you want to regain your power, this podcast is for you.

Ready to leave your low self-worth behind for good? Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn how you can work with Roshni one-on-one through ⁠⁠⁠⁠self-worth coaching sessions⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠tarot readings⁠⁠⁠⁠ and finally step into the most powerful and confident version of you.

⁠⁠⁠⁠Download the FREE Bye-Bye Binary Thinking Workbook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book Self-Worth Coaching with Roshni⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book A Tarot Reading with Roshni⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Black Sheep Experience Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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#blacksheepmeaning #whatmakessomeoneablacksheep #whatistheblacksheepofthefamily #howtoknowifyouretheblacksheep #blacksheepofthefamily


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Help Families Escape Rafah (GoFundMe)

Help Families in Congo + Sudan through Mutual Aim

Learn about Mutual Aim



Want to share resources, your perspective, or add to this conversation? Email me at roshni@blacksheepexperience.com with your thoughts on this conversation. (Let me know if you want to stay anonymous or include the name/handle you'd like me to read on the next episode!)



Don't forget to email me the screenshot of your donation for a 15% off discount on any of my tarot services or on a self-worth coaching session.



About Becoming Enough:



The Becoming Enough podcast teaches you how to liberate yourself from your limiting beliefs and worthiness wounds. 

You’ll find discussions that validate your internal experience as a black sheep and dive deep into the journey of self-actualization and sovereignty. 

Roshni, your host, wholeheartedly believes that high self-worth is your ticket to true liberation. If you want to regain your power, this podcast is for you.

Ready to leave your low self-worth behind for good? Visit ⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience.com⁠⁠⁠ to learn how you can work with Roshni one-on-one through ⁠⁠⁠self-worth coaching sessions⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠tarot readings⁠⁠⁠ and finally step into the most powerful and confident version of you.

⁠⁠⁠Download the FREE Bye-Bye Binary Thinking Workbook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book Self-Worth Coaching with Roshni⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book A Tarot Reading with Roshni⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Black Sheep Experience Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience Instagram⁠



#community #communitycare #education #activism


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Rae Monet (@raemonet_), a Denver poet, speaker, spiritual healer, artist, and podcast host of the Sol Series Podcast, joins me today!

We had a conversation about:

* how our work as spiritual healers and artists taught us to value our own words and worth,

* finding and defining our version of "getting there" and what that means for our goals and mental health,

* learning that your purpose is just as vibrant even when you're not creating,

* loving ourselves as multidisciplinary artists instead of feeling "unfocused" by our different goals.



Follow + Work with Rae!

https://linktr.ee/RaeMonet?ltsid=c0625fcf-ef2f-49a3-aa74-255d29fa8f80



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⁠⁠Download the FREE Bye-Bye Binary Thinking Workbook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book Self-Worth Coaching with Roshni⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book A Tarot Reading with Roshni⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Black Sheep Experience Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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About Becoming Enough:

The Becoming Enough podcast teaches you how to liberate yourself from your limiting beliefs and worthiness wounds. 

You’ll find discussions that validate your internal experience as a black sheep and dive deep into the journey of self-actualization and sovereignty. 

Roshni, your host, wholeheartedly believes that high self-worth is your ticket to true liberation. If you want to regain your power, this podcast is for you.

Ready to leave your low self-worth behind for good? Visit ⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience.com⁠⁠⁠ to learn how you can work with Roshni one-on-one through ⁠⁠⁠self-worth coaching sessions⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠tarot readings⁠⁠⁠ and finally step into the most powerful and confident version of you.



#art #community #communityartists #artists #multidisciplinaryartists #bipocartist


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About this episode:



We're wrapping up eclipse season, and the topic heavy on my heart this week is self-abandonment.

If you've ever felt completely disconnected from your intuition or lost and purposeless, it may be because you were taught to abandon yourself.

Even if you feel rooted in your purpose, you may find it difficult to trust yourself or the world around you when things don't go your way. This immediate shift into fear and self-doubt is another sign that you're afraid you may abandon yourself (again).

This episode explores why black sheep have a unique relationship to self-abandonment because of the homes that we were raised in, and how that can manifest in many different ways as adults.

You might be the black-sheep-turned-perfectionist, who is constantly seeking control and order and turns to shame and criticism when things go awry.

Or you could be the destructive black sheep who defies rules and authority but often tends to cut people off too soon and walks a line of hyperindependence and self-sabotage.

You could even be the Fixer-Upper black sheep who is ready to jump into fix-it mode when it comes to everyone else's life, but is way too stubborn to be present with your own issues.

This is one of the most important episodes I've released this season, and I hope it inspires you to answer the call within.



About Becoming Enough:



The Becoming Enough podcast teaches you how to liberate yourself from your limiting beliefs and worthiness wounds. 

You’ll find discussions that validate your internal experience as a black sheep and dive deep into the journey of self-actualization and sovereignty. 

Roshni, your host, wholeheartedly believes that high self-worth is your ticket to true liberation. If you want to regain your power, this podcast is for you.

Ready to leave your low self-worth behind for good? Visit ⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience.com⁠⁠ to learn how you can work with Roshni one-on-one through ⁠⁠self-worth coaching sessions⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠tarot readings⁠⁠ and finally step into the most powerful and confident version of you.

⁠⁠Download the FREE Bye-Bye Binary Thinking Workbook⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Book Self-Worth Coaching with Roshni⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Book A Tarot Reading with Roshni⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Black Sheep Experience Website⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience Instagram⁠

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#selfabandonment #healingjourney #selfworth #selfesteem #blacksheep #blacksheepofthefamily


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Face the Stillness is a 5-week, 1:1 coaching program to guide you through the fears, feelings, and beliefs you've been avoiding.



As Black Sheep and survivors of trauma, we can hold onto the need to escape. Running away has come easy to me because of my past, but I've never been able to run fast enough to escape my demons.



I know how hard it is to face those inner voices. I know how much your life is arranged around avoiding them.



The constant music and shows and podcasts (lol) in your ear, the ridiculously-busy schedule, the partying, the effort you put into making sure you're alone or in a silent space truly creeps up on you.



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Let's talk about how to coach yourself from a place of feeling stuck, stagnant, anxious, or just generally having a breakdown to a lesson that changes your life.



It's possible and something I've been doing for years. I walked through this exact process today and uncovered a hidden trigger. Uncovering this truth about myself led me to feel so empowered because now I know how to better advocate for myself and make decisions that support the wounded parts of myself.



I break down the entire process for you in this episode - be sure to grab your journal so you don't miss a thing.

Get comfy, baddies - we're introspecting!



About Becoming Enough:



The Becoming Enough podcast teaches you how to liberate yourself from your limiting beliefs and worthiness wounds. 

You’ll find discussions that validate your internal experience as a black sheep and dive deep into the journey of self-actualization and sovereignty. 

Roshni, your host, wholeheartedly believes that high self-worth is your ticket to true liberation. If you want to regain your power, this podcast is for you.

Ready to leave your low self-worth behind for good? Visit ⁠BlackSheepExperience.com⁠ to learn how you can work with Roshni one-on-one through ⁠self-worth coaching sessions⁠ or ⁠tarot readings⁠ and finally step into the most powerful and confident version of you.

⁠Download the FREE Bye-Bye Binary Thinking Workbook⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Book Self-Worth Coaching with Roshni⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Book A Tarot Reading with Roshni⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠Black Sheep Experience Website⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience TikTok⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠BlackSheepExperience Instagram⁠


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