Living with Borderline Personality Disorder Living with Borderline Personality Disorder

So, I am a spouse of someone with BPD. Something you said caught my ear. “I hope I can find a man that will make me happy...”. As a man dealing with the irrational and dramatic BPD mate, I find nothing I do makes them happy. The negative always gets brought to the forefront. This disordered is difficult for most men to handle since most men are logical problem solvers and most with BPD tend to obsess over the emotional aspects of feelings. At times I feel like I can’t do anything right, when technically it’s a perspective from both sides. I have my moments I want to run because the drama is overwhelming. However, From the outside looking in everyone wishes they had someone that did so much but the BPD person doesn’t see that and always plays the victim. After all that dribble, I meant to say find happiness in the simplicity of life since the more you add to life only creates more question and insecurities.

You should get rid of the music in the background. It’s distracting. Otherwise this is a great channel. I would have given a five stars, lot of the times I have to pause or never listen to the rest of the episodes because of the music. All the music you play is good, just not something to be played while you’re wanting to be serious.

I really enjoy getting to hear about BPD from someone with BPD.

Letter to the podcaster:

Please please please don’t forget relationships aren’t everything. You can’t be in a happy relationship if you aren’t happy with yourself. 💕 keep fighting.