Feeling unheard and unseen in your relationship? Is your spouse constantly seeking admiration or making you feel like you're never good enough? You might be dealing with narcissistic traits in your partner. But before you throw in the towel, listen up! This episode of Relationship Radio dives deep into the world of narcissism, unpacking the two major types: grandiose and vulnerable narcissism. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes will help you identify these behaviors and offer practical...

In this compelling and deeply moving video, Gemma James shares her personal odyssey from marital turmoil to resilience with the invaluable support of Marriage Helper. Witness the transformative power of the Save My Marriage program even when separation and divorce looms as a possible end result. Journey with Gemma as she recounts her courageous process through crisis, healing and moving forward. Gemma's story is a beacon of hope for anyone facing the daunting prospect of saving a marriage...

Is an intense infatuation a sign of true love, or is it something else entirely? This episode explores the concept of limerence and its potential impact on relationships. In this eye-opening episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes of Marriage Helper dive deep into the powerful and often misunderstood phenomenon of limerence. Discover: - What limerence is and how it differs from romantic love - The warning signs of limerence: how to know if you or your partner...

Is your marriage foundation crumbling under the weight of jealousy and insecurity? These destructive emotions can lead to heartbreak and resentment.  But there's hope! In today's episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes and Dr. Joe Beam tackle jealousy in marriage head-on. They'll help you understand the root of fear of abandonment and how it fuels jealous outbursts and controlling behaviors. You'll discover: - The Source of Jealousy: Uncover the hidden fears that sabotage your relationship, and how...

Is your marriage hanging by a thread? Do you question if marriage restoration is possible after a devastating betrayal? In this deeply personal episode of Relationship Radio, we welcome Chris and Karista Stutzman. Their marriage restoration testimony is a powerful reminder that hope and healing exist, even in the most challenging circumstances. Chris and Karista candidly share their struggles with infidelity, limerence, and the breakdown of communication that nearly led to divorce. They...

Are you struggling with conflict resolution in marriage? Do arguments feel draining instead of productive? Conflict is a natural part of relationships, but learning to fight constructively is essential for a healthy, lasting marriage. In this video, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes discuss: Why avoiding conflict can be problematic Different conflict styles and how they impact resolution Tips for handling conflict with empathy and respect Importance of seeking resources (workshops, etc.)...

Can you save your marriage after divorce? Don't give up hope! This episode explores the possibility of reconciliation even after a final divorce decree. Marriage Helper Founder Dr. Joe Beam shares a powerful encouragement of couples who rekindled their love and rebuilt their marriage after divorce. Listen in and discover: Why divorce doesn't have to be the end: Learn how focusing on personal growth can pave the way for a renewed relationship. Healing from the pain of divorce: We acknowledge...

Is your marriage marked by trust issues and a controlling spouse? Control, often driven by fear of abandonment, can leave you feeling trapped, manipulated, and hurt by guilt-tripping. This destroys the safety of a relationship, but there IS hope for change, and it could even save your marriage. Marriage Helper Coach Roald Gerber understands. He was once a controlling spouse, and his journey from control to connection inspires change. He offers insights and tools to help you: * Recognize...

Embarking on the journey toward a happy marriage? Dr. Joe Beam, a relationship expert with acclaim, offers profound marriage advice for couples seeking to deepen their connection. This comprehensive guide illuminates the path to a fulfilling partnership, highlighting: Passion and Intimacy: Unearth the secrets to sustaining a vibrant connection, a cornerstone for any happy marriage. Dr. Beam’s insights reveal how to weave passion with intimacy, creating a robust foundation for...

In "Solving Marriage Sexual Intimacy Issues!", we tackle how vital intimacy is for a flourishing marriage, highlighting the sexual health benefits and the overall improvement it offers to partners' well-being. Addressing marriage and sexual intimacy isn't solely about physical closeness but also about overcoming barriers like a lack of emotional connection and navigating through marriage and emotional neglect. These challenges can create a sense of distance, significantly impacting the...

In this compelling video, Dr. Joe Beam and CEO Kimberly Beam Holmes of Marriage Helper delve into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), examining its implications and how it intersects with concepts like polygamy and references to polygamy in the Bible. They explore the ethical non-monogamy meaning, questioning if personal consent is enough to justify its practice amidst potential emotional harm and societal disruption. The dialogue critically assesses the impact of ENM on emotional connections,...

📈 Divorce Statistics & Insights: Dive into the latest study from Forbes, exploring divorce trends from 2020 to 2023. Discover eye-opening stats on the average length of marriage before divorce, the impact of occupations on marital stability, and much more. 👥 Who's Most Likely to Divorce?: Uncover which age groups and professions face higher divorce risks. Plus, find out about the surprising stability in second marriages. 🕒 Marriage Duration Insights: The average marriage now lasts about...

Do you feel like you have no hope for your marriage? Has an affair completely taken any hope from you of reconciling? If you feel… 👉 Completely overwhelmed… 👉 Hopeless that your marriage can be saved… 👉 Like no one in your life understands what you’re going through… We have a training just for you. This Tuesday, January 30th, Kimberly will host a free webinar to answer this question... Is there HOPE after an Affair? Sign up today!

In this episode, we take a look into the often-misunderstood world of 'Toxic Positivity' and its impact on marital relationships. Join us as we unravel the complex dynamics between maintaining a positive outlook and the potential harm it can cause in a marriage, especially when it leads to the suppression of genuine emotions and concerns. We also take a look at the harming effects of labeling. ➤ The Article Referenced In Today's Episode: bit.ly/3Ojaauz ➤ Key Highlights: - What is Toxic...

Join Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, as they delve into the complexities of marriage counseling in this enlightening episode. Dr. Beam clarifies that he isn't against marriage counseling but emphasizes the importance of choosing the right counselor. Kimberly shares her journey from training in marriage and family therapy to her transition to psychology, driven by the transformative power of Marriage Helper workshops. They discuss the challenges and biases...

Join Dr. Joe Beam and CEO Kimberly Beam Holmes as they delve into the challenging dynamics of love turning into hate in marriages. This episode is inspired by Dr. Robert Sternberg's insightful research, exploring how feelings of hate can emerge from the very elements that once strengthened a bond: intimacy, passion, and commitment. We'll examine how these foundations of a relationship can become sources of deep resentment, especially when trust is broken. In our journey, we share a compelling...

In this episode of Relationship Radio, we delve into the intricate and often overlooked concept of micro-cheating. Through a personal story of transparency in marriage, we highlight the importance of candid conversations as a cornerstone of trust between spouses. We unravel the layers of subtle behaviors that, while seemingly harmless, can plant seeds of doubt and lead to emotional infidelity. By dissecting the nuances of micro-cheating, from understanding underlying intentions to recognizing...

On today's episode of Relationship Radio, we're taking a look back at 10 of the best moments of 2023 and packaging them into one episode for you to have heading into the new year ❤️ EPISODES How To Build Better Communication With Your Spouse When Your Spouse Feels Like A Roommate When Is It Time To Let Go? What To Do When Your Spouse Checks Out Emotionally Do THIS First To Save Your Marriage Why You SHOULDN'T Divorce Your Cheating Spouse How Do People Fall In and Out Of Love? If You're...

Ever found yourself questioning the boundaries of fidelity within marriage? Today we unravel the intricacies of both physical and emotional infidelity. We dissect the subtle yet significant behaviors that might indicate a breach of trust, from micro-cheating to the types of kisses exchanged. By providing insights into the dynamics of different forms of affairs, we aim to shed light on the true gravity of these actions and help listeners understand where the lines are drawn in their own...

Are you facing challenges in your marriage and considering separation? This discussion is here to help you understand the complexities of separation and why it's important to consider it only as a last option, except in cases of physical or emotional harm. We will introduce a seven-step process designed to revive and strengthen your relationship, focusing on self-improvement rather than your spouse's actions. We'll also examine the vital role of communication and clear understanding during...

Ever thought the old 'no contact' rule was a surefire way to win back a separated spouse? Be prepared for a reality check as we shine a light on the flaws of this manipulative tactic. We dissect the key role that secure attachment and healthy communication play in a marriage rather than resorting to emotional manipulation. We'll also be introducing you to the concept of SMART Contact™, an antidote to the marital challenges you've been battling. Step into an enlightening discussion on how...

We've all encountered difficult moments in our relationships that shake us to our core and make us question our own worth. Our guest, Nathan, an intake specialist here at Marriage Helper, joins us to discuss the daunting challenges individuals face in troubled marriages. Together, we dissect how fear, panic, and a desperate need for control can often cloud our judgement. We're passionate about understanding each unique narrative, and we aim to create a safe space for all stories to be heard,...

Navigating the festive season while dealing with the emotional turmoil of marital separation can seem like a mountainous feat. But here's a promise: by the end of this episode, you'll have a roadmap on how to not only survive this challenging season but also keep your sanity intact. Join us as we unpack the emotional roller-coaster that this season can thrust upon you and guide you on how to process these emotions healthily. Let's talk about that elephant in the room— the surge in divorce...

Ever wonder why certain behaviors can predict divorce with over 80% accuracy? Today, we unpack the mystery of one such behavior known as 'stonewalling', alongside the other three horsemen of the relationship apocalypse: defensiveness, criticism, and contempt. Our deep-dive into Dr. John Gottman's groundbreaking research at the Love Lab, reveals how these destructive behaviors can send a relationship spiraling downward. But it's not all doom and gloom! We also explore the antidote to...