This poem is an excerpt from the book Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg. I never feel more given to than when you take from me – when you understand the joy I feel giving to you. And you know my giving isn’t done to put you in my debt, but because I want to live the love I feel for you. To receive with grace may be the greatest giving. There’s no way I can separate the two. When you give to me, I give you my receiving. When you take from me, I feel so given to.