Paulette Perhach, an award-winning writer and author, shares her experiences with rejection and failure. She emphasizes the importance of being open and vulnerable as a writer and navigating the challenges that come with it. She discusses her journey with ADHD and how it has influenced her relationship with rejection. Paulette also talks about the importance of self-compassion and seeking external help when needed. She shares personal stories of infidelity and how she stays open despite past experiences. In this conversation, Paulette Perhach discusses the importance of feeling and embracing vulnerability, the power of acceptance, and the journey from victimhood to survivorship. S he emphasizes the need to tap into our emotions and experiences in order to grow and transform. Paulette also shares insights on negotiation, self-education, and the value of having a vision. She encourages aspiring writers to read, write consistently, and start with small projects before submitting their work. Paulette's personal story of resilience and growth serves as an inspiration for anyone navigating the challenges of life and pursuing their creative passions. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Welcome to the Writer's Life: How to Design Your Writing Craft, Writing Business, Writing Practice, and Reading Practice on Amazon. To find out more about Paulette Perhach and her writing coaching, retreats and pieces, visit: https://www.pauletteperhach.com/  Follow Paulette on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulettejperhach/ I will also be giving away a copy of Paulette's latest book to a listener who subscribes to the podcast (your entry will count twice if you also review). You just need to email screenshots to [email protected]. A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with. If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with: Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women's spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.  Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com  Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com  Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry’s guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here’s the link:⁠https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35  If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com If you're looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:17 Embracing Rejection and Failure 06:04 The Power of a Beginner's Mindset 10:07 Navigating Rejection and Failure with ADHD 24:34 Staying Open and Vulnerable as a Writer 29:56 Embracing Vulnerability and Growth 30:23 The Power of Acceptance 31:31 Negotiation and Self-Education 33:18 Having a Vision and Setting Audacious Goals 36:33 Starting Small and Building Confidence 41:17 Navigating Rejection and Persevering