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A podcast by, for, and about moms and those who love them.

This is a show devoted to calling out the idealism and perfection that our society places on mothers, while also discussing the often taboo topics that come with transitioning into motherhood. It’s time for us to stop beating around the bush or hiding our struggles so that we can be seen, heard, and way less alone. There’s no one right way to be a mother, there is only YOUR right way. Join me, Alissa Alter | women’s health expert & motherhood advocate to share our stories, let go of mythical expectations, and write our own rules. Also-- can we all agree that showering, going to the bathroom, and being by yourself are NOT luxuries, but basic needs for us to not only survive, but thrive? I think it’s time.

Myth of Motherhood Alissa Alter

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.8 • 20 Ratings

A podcast by, for, and about moms and those who love them.

This is a show devoted to calling out the idealism and perfection that our society places on mothers, while also discussing the often taboo topics that come with transitioning into motherhood. It’s time for us to stop beating around the bush or hiding our struggles so that we can be seen, heard, and way less alone. There’s no one right way to be a mother, there is only YOUR right way. Join me, Alissa Alter | women’s health expert & motherhood advocate to share our stories, let go of mythical expectations, and write our own rules. Also-- can we all agree that showering, going to the bathroom, and being by yourself are NOT luxuries, but basic needs for us to not only survive, but thrive? I think it’s time.

    Creating A Hospitable Environment For Pleasure with Danielle Savory

    Creating A Hospitable Environment For Pleasure with Danielle Savory

    Pleasure doesn’t just show up. You need to invite her to the party. And if your party sucks, she’s gonna be a hard no. See what I did there? Let’s figure out what we need to let go of or leave behind in order to create a hospital environment for pleasure. Let’s plan a panty dropping party she can’t wait to get to. 
    CLICK HERE to download your FREE workout to find out where your vagina is pointing and get started on your path to confidence, continence, and connection to your body!

    In this episode:

    How Danielle recovered from being so ill she was bedridden through healing her deep, inner emotional trauma to live the life she’s meant to live.    Using movement to connect to physical sensations and how that translates to emotional sensations to cultivate safety in your body.   Why we need to unwire learned experiences in order to rebuild with intention, safety, and pleasure.
    Danielle Savory is a Master-Certified coach and pleasure expert helping women use their largest sex organ—their brain—for better sex and a more pleasure-filled life. The host of the “It’s My Pleasure” podcast, Danielle weaves together her background in neuroscience, her expertise in mindfulness and skills as a coach to help women rewire their brains and connect with their bodies for an empowering approach to their sexuality. Learn more about Danielle here and her online membership Turned On Woman here. For more follow her on IG @danielle.savory.

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    As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage.
    Follow along on IG @alissaalter

    • 39 min
    Turning 40 & Everything That Comes With It

    Turning 40 & Everything That Comes With It

    I turn 40 this week! And I can't help but think about how turning 30 set the stage for me to be exactly where I am now. 
    In this episode:
    Upcoming classes! Stay up to date by joining my email list! SIGN UP HERE! How I felt turning 30 Who I had to become to create an envirnment for my dreams to come true The worst year of my life was also the best (and I think that will be the same this time) My 30s are the springboard for my 40s The benefits of setting your life on fire If you’re picking up what I’m laying down…
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    As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage.
    Follow along on IG @alissaalter

    • 30 min
    Change Is Inevitable with Jason Feifer

    Change Is Inevitable with Jason Feifer

    After last week's episode I HAD to share this conversation with Editor In Chief of Entrepreneur Magazine Jason Feifer all about navigating change. This show was originally aired on my old podcast in 2022 and I think about it ALL the time. 
    In this episode we also discuss…
    Becoming a person who wears a watch with a reminder to move during the day and the correlations Jason has found with this data. The 4 phases of change and which seems to be the hardest. The question that helps clarify everything! Jason’s book! Build For Tomorrow! Buy it, read it, review it, share it with a friend!!! Jason Feifer is the editor in chief of Entrepreneur magazine, and author of the book Build For Tomorrow: An Action Plan for Embracing Change, Adapting Fast, and Future-Proofing Your Career. Learn more at www.jasonfeifer.com and on IG @heyfeifer
    If you’re picking up what I’m laying down…
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    CLICK HERE to download your FREE guide to the 3 Things You Deserve To Know About Your Vag!
    As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage.

    • 37 min
    The Symbiotic Relationship Between Different, Change, and Growth

    The Symbiotic Relationship Between Different, Change, and Growth

    I haven’t stopped reflecting since January 1st (can’t stop won’t stop) and I’ve decided I’m not a “New Year, New Me” person. I’m in my “New Year, Different Me” era.
    In the episode…
    The power of using different movement techniques and modalities to increase performance and avoid injuries
    Using different approaches to increase personal performance at work and at home
    What’s Different about me after having my second baby
    Enacting Different (change) is a painful process
    The symbiotic relationship between growth and change 
    If you’re picking up what I’m laying down…
    SHARE this episode with a friend! 
    CLICK HERE to download your FREE guide to the 3 Things You Deserve To Know About Your Vag!
    As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage.
     

    • 26 min
    Make Painful Sex A Thing Of The Past with OhNut Founder Emily Sauer

    Make Painful Sex A Thing Of The Past with OhNut Founder Emily Sauer

    Ever wonder what a penis would look like wearing a pink donut? Me too. Wonder no more because the OhNut is here! And no, it’s not just for decoration! It’s function is even hotter. The OhNut is a wearable silicone sleeve that works like a bumper to control and limit depth of penetration. It’s made up of stacking rings so you can decide what works best for you. 
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    I’ve been recommending OhNut to clients for years and everyone has been happy with the results. Because the OhNut allows you to relax, knowing that you are safe, and start to explore the possibility of pleasure between the sheets. Whether with a partner or flying solo. Emily has gracious shared a discount code ALISSA7 with us which you can use at www.ohnut.co for $7 off!
    CLICK HERE to download your FREE guide to the 3 Things You Deserve To Know About Your Vag!
    In this episode…
    Options to heal painful sex and how the OhNut works to fascilitate that
    Finding a sense of safety and control in your body again
    Getting lost in the cracks of the medical system & creating a holistic approach to care in a divided system
    Take an active role in your solution to painful sex and include your partner
    Emily is a spritely entrepreneur who has always been passionate about creating catalysts that spark human connection. While developing Ohnut she co-founded the Lady Bits League, the Pain Perception Project, and Pelvic Gym to connect people and professionals from all over the pelvic health world, through education and story. Emily has redefined her life as a proud entrepreneur, maker, community leader, and patient advocate. Learn more at www.Ohnut.co and follow on IG @ohnutco
    As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage.
     

    • 44 min
    Motherhood Is A Shitstorm

    Motherhood Is A Shitstorm

    I am just as surprised as you are about the theme of this monumental 100th episode of Myth of Motherhood! Some of the best advice I ever got from my dad and how I’m refining it to fit me and my life right now. 
    In the episode…
    Navigating the literal and metaphorical shitstorm of motherhood and life
    YOUR top five favorite episodes!
    The episodes I returned to during my second postpartum experience
    Why eating shit isn’t the worst
    When to eat shit and how much to eat
    Eating shit metaphorically and not literally. Making this explicit because there are some WEIRD health trends out there
    There isn’t ONE right way, there’s only YOUR right way. 
    If you’re picking up what I’m laying down…
    SHARE this episode with a friend! 
    CLICK HERE to download your FREE guide to the 3 Things You Deserve To Know About Your Vag!
    As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage.

    • 32 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
20 Ratings

20 Ratings

Fantastic for All! ,

A must-listen for moms!

I love listening to Alissa and appreciate her real talk and energetic spirit!

Ksr103 ,

🙌 the real real!

So glad to have a podcast that talks about the REAL stuff of motherhood - without drama, shame, or glorification. Alissa speaks to you straight from her authentic self and is the real deal though and through. The jokes add levity, because we all know it’s laugh or cry out there. I’m psyched for the next episode!

asac1692 ,

Motherhood?

The real myth is that this is about motherhood lol

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