133 episodes

Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.

Non-Monogamy Help Lola Phoenix

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Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.

    Episode 132 - Mind Reading

    Episode 132 - Mind Reading

    If you feel too uncomfortable to ask for what you want from your partner then holding resentment towards them for not meeting your needs may not be fair.


    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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    Episode 131 - Cheating Introduction

    Episode 131 - Cheating Introduction

    Can you move from cheating to a “successful” polyamorous relationship and what needs to happen?


    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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    • 24 min
    Episode 130 - Deprioritised

    Episode 130 - Deprioritised

    If you know you’re being deprioritised and you just feel you can’t leave, can you actually make it work.

    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with your question or record your question on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact


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    • 26 min
    Episode 129 - Struggling to Be Together

    Episode 129 - Struggling to Be Together

    You can’t live your life only making decisions based on what will or won’t disappoint other adults.

    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at ⁠https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp⁠ for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with your question or record your question on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact



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    • 18 min
    Non-Monogamy Help Trailer

    Non-Monogamy Help Trailer

    What's Non-Monogamy Help about? I explain it. Head to nonmonogamyhelp.com for more details.


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    Episode 128 - Stopping Emotions

    Episode 128 - Stopping Emotions

    Is there really a way to stop your emotions in their tracks or fully control them especially if you’re in a difficult housing situation?

    That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠on my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Check my affiliate link at https://betterhelp.com/nonmonogamyhelp for 10% off your first month.

    Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠albery-jones.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with your question or record your question on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nonmonogamyhelp.com/contact


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    • 18 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
46 Ratings

46 Ratings

Justin Kalm ,

Compassionate, Sensible Advice

Lola Phoenix’s podcast is an excellent supplement to their book, “The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy.” They help readers and listeners to feel seen and understood, and to see their challenges as something they can get through. They offer a refreshing mix of skepticism, curiosity, caring, and hope.

for the bunnies ,

Wonderful!

I adore the podcast! I just wish the episodes were longer, cause they’re so good! ✨

tghotefhu ,

She’s a stalwart

Lola has a wealth of experience. I’ve followed some her work now for some years ( I think least 7). Really at the forefront of helping people carve out honest passionate living in their relationships. So glad to have stumbled across your views when I did.

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