In this episode, we respond to the complementary questions of Lydia and Peter. Their questions (asked independently for different relationships) seem to be about the same issue: How to correct one's partner in a relationship.  Lydia asks: "Most times when I try to tell my fiance that what he did is wrong or painful, he always ends up getting angry and ignoring my calls (and much more) just because I expressed my mind. What would you say about this?" Peter asks: "I'm having doubts in my relationship even though I felt led into it in the beginning. And this is mostly because of some attitude problems from my partner. Although she is teachable and she has corrected a couple of those attitude issues, but then, the recurrences make it seem as if either the progress is slow or her level of maturity is low. These attitude problems are mostly about the way she puts out some statements (use of words which sometimes portray rudeness)." SCRIPTURE QUOTED James 1:19 NIV "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry," REFERENCED Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray