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Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC is a relationship expert, self-specialist, life coach. He as been helping people for 40 years. He was a marriage and family therapist, pastoral counselor, pastor, speaker, chemical dependency counselor, executive coach, and organization coach.
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Narcissistic Parents Behaviors that Cause Deep-Rooted LONELINESS
Discover how narcissistic parents' behaviors lead to deep and lasting loneliness in you. This video breaks down key traits and their impact.
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Other ways I can help you👇🏼
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🔥🔥🔥 Coaching packages & solutions:
https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/book-online?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=coaching&utm_content=a62
🌐 More free recourses on my website:
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➡️ Recommended Playlists:
Outgrowing dysfunctional family Patterns- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2Eu-hOf7YkDY7xD-zVq-BR
Break Free From Narcissistic Parents & Families- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W172vXggx0taH1_eHfNDq2a
Adult Children of Alcoholics: Heal & Change The Pattern - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2hxQ_UzQsKEm2d39X8B2hH
➡️ You can find me also on:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrytwise/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jerrytwise
Twitter: https://twitter.com/Jerrytwise
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82?si=4a5987b4b8064a39
For over 45 Years, Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has helped 1000s of People in the Same Situation as You… As a family system and self-differentiation coach, he uses his knowledge to help clients permanently get unstuck from family-of-origin dysfunction, cultivate healthy relationships and build a true sense of self.
DISCLAIMER: This video is not intended to substitute for professional counseling help. Be sure to consult a professional in helping you with these integrate and utilize these concepts.
🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The Differentiated-Self You Were Never Allowed To Have!"
https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a62
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Narcissistic Parent Tactics That Cause Childhood Trauma and CPTSD
Narcissistic parents often use tactics that lead to CPTSD, childhood trauma and can have long-lasting effects on you as an adult.
This is how I can help you 👇🏼
🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The REAL SELF You Were Never Allowed To Have!"
https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a59
🔥🔥🔥 Join 'Your New Road To SELF': Break free from toxic family patterns, heal your relationships, and discover your true self! https://program.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/welcome/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=YNRTS&utm_content=a59
🔥🔥🔥 Coaching packages & solutions:
https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/book-online?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=coaching&utm_content=a59
🌐 More free recourses on my website:
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
➡️ Recommended Playlists:
Outgrowing dysfunctional family Patterns- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2Eu-hOf7YkDY7xD-zVq-BR
Break Free From Narcissistic Parents & Families- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W172vXggx0taH1_eHfNDq2a
Adult Children of Alcoholics: Heal & Change The Pattern - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2hxQ_UzQsKEm2d39X8B2hH
➡️ You can find me also on:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrytwise/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jerrytwise
Twitter: https://twitter.com/Jerrytwise
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82?si=4a5987b4b8064a39
For over 45 Years, Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has helped 1000s of People in the Same Situation as You… As a family system and self-differentiation coach, he uses his knowledge to help clients permanently get unstuck from family-of-origin dysfunction, cultivate healthy relationships and build a true sense of self.
DISCLAIMER: This video is not intended to substitute for professional counseling help. Be sure to consult a professional in helping you with these integrate and utilize these concepts.
🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The REAL SELF You Were Never Allowed To Have!"
https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a59
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5 Keys for Getting the Narcissist Out of You
Are you having trouble getting the narcissist out of you?
Jerry Wise is a life and relationship coach and been helping people for over 40 years using a family systems approach to recovery and healing. In this video he shares 5 keys for helping you get the narcissist out of you. He talks about using a paradoxical acceptance tool, unlocking the interlocking relationships in the past with the narcissist, stopping systems behaviors and resisting systems feelings, resisting and overcoming obsessive thinking, and turning your obsession to self love.
To work with Jerry Wise contact him at:
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
317-919-6264
jerrywise5@gmail.com
Join Jerry's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZWHfOsTVegeEFEXV56llWA
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerryWiseConsulting/
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"Resists the Forces to Fit in with the Group" 6 of 7
-What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy mature inner adult?
Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.
KEY POINT: "Resists the forces to fit in with the group ethos when it contradicts their values" Number 6 of the 7 part series Our aim is to resist group think, group feel, the family superself, the workplace superself, and following the herd. Stating I-positions without reactivity, with calmness, and focusing on Self when dealing with others and the group ethos (values, morals, opinions). Staying in contact means we do not retreat nor do we attack or become reactive in relationships in which we disagree with others. Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up". He explains each one. Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and life and relationship coach. He and his team work with individuals, couples, and families and businesses to become strong self-differentiating people and leaders.
To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
317-919-6264
jerrywise5@gmail.com
Join Jerry's YouTube Channel,
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerryWiseConsulting/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JerryWiseRS
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrywise.rs/
Also all of his videos are on Spotify and Anchor.fm for online and offline listening. You can take them with you in your car or at work. "Not How but When" by Jerry Wise https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82
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"Doesn't Expect to be Rescued by Others and Refrains from Taking Over for Others." 5/7 and 7/7
-What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?
Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.
KEY POINT: "Doesn't Expect to be Rescued by Others and Refrains from Taking Over for Others." Number 5 of 7 part series Jerry Wise Life and Relationship Coach explains what it means to be rescued by others and taking over for others. Using Bowen Family Systems Theory he describes the sharing of Self with others. Giving and taking of self is common in dysfunctional relationships. He explains how we can identify and avoid this so we can be self-differentiated. Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up". He explains each one. Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and relationship coach.
To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
317-919-6264
jerrywise5@gmail.com
Join Jerry's YouTube Channel,
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerryWiseConsulting/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JerryWiseRS
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrywise.rs/
Also all of his videos are on Spotify and Anchor.fm for online and offline listening. You can take them with you in your car or at work. "Not How but When" by Jerry Wise https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82
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"Stays in Contact with Those Who are Upset" 4 of 7
-What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult? Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.
KEY POINT: "Stays in Contact with Those Who are Upset" Number 4 of the 7 Part Series Staying in contact means we do not retreat nor do we attack or become reactive in relationships in which others are upset or are upset with us.
Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up". He explains each one. Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and relationship coach. To work with Jerry Wise contact him at
www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
317-919-6264
jerrywise5@gmail.com
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Customer Reviews
I listen to you tube the topic Scapegoat.
It was excellent thank you so much Jerry Wise. I am the Scapegoat for my Sister in our family she is the Golden Child.
And she uses me and she believes I am responsible for her difficult life journey so I am her scapegoat. By the way I am 73 and she is 8 years younger. She is in AA recovery . But still uses the scapegoat . I would love to have the healing between us but I just have learned the only success we will have is to be polite but stay out of her world and she stay out of mine. I want peace in my life as it’s coming to a end and acceptance of life on life terms and continue to love and serve God. Thank you.
Sincerely Mary LeMaire
Uniquely valuable
The material is gold. It’s hard to come by a such an experienced coach and mentor like Jerry with information that is life-changing.
He’s an ideal person to learn from with his own personal experience and his 40 years of a career helping people in this niche area.
I’ve been in ACA for 1.5 years, am in therapy, and work with life coaches, and just signed up for Jerry’s Silver Membership (group program) to put it all together with what he refers to as stage 5 of the healing process. It’s the full realization of oneself.
I highly recommend this podcast and his YouTube channel.
Very Good Material *
The information in these pods are valuable and will help anyone wanting to grow and mature. I would like to see some new episodes that are Mr. Wises’ latest findings and instruction for human behavior. Ty.