"I used to be anxiously attached, but after being cheated on I think I've become avoidant. Help!"
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In this episode, I'm answering the community question of "I used to be anxiously attached, but after discovering my husband's infidelity, I find myself being avoidant with potential new partners. How do I find the healthy middle ground?" We talk about changing attachment styles, fear, betrayal and how we can start to create more safety more ourselves after we've been hurt.  Further Links & Resources FLASH SALE: SAVE 50% ON MY MASTERCLASSES & COURSES WITH THE CODE "LOVEYOU" Download the free guide: Attachment 101 Follow me on Instagram: @stephanie__rigg & @onattachment Visit my website
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