"How do I tell my partner they are avoidant so we can do the

"How do I tell my partner they are avoidant so we can do the work?"

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In this episode, I'm answering a question I receive all the time which is: "How do I tell my partner they are avoidant so that we can start doing the work?" We cover: The importance of being honest & self-aware about our intentions in introducing a partner to personal development workNavigating anxious attachment tendencies around the saviour complex, over-functioning and taking responsibility for what's not oursWhy "the work" might look different for everyone How to approach conversations about relational growth in a productive, balanced & healthy wayFurther Links & Resources Join the waitlist for the next round of Healing Anxious Attachment Download the free guide: Attachment 101 Follow me on Instagram: @stephanie__rigg & @onattachment Visit my website

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