Perspectives: 10 Min Talks With Dom Dominique Johnson

In this sequel to “you don’t get to misuse boundaries” Dom and T discuss past and potential boundary issues during the holiday season and how to prep for them.

Boundaries….

In a boundary hyper culture we are all too quick to use this word without actually clarity behind its purpose. A boundary has a clear start and end point. It is not a cop out to hard conversations or courage. Actually, I might even say that boundaries take courage. Courage to understand ones self courage to understand the capacity of another. This episode is an introduction to a 3 part series . We hope yal enjoy Fam !

A lot of times we are frustrated with how life’s difficulties are arising. Whether it be at our job, in our families, or romantic involvements, we feel like we have said soooo much and often times ask ourself why aren’t people doing what we want?! Why aren’t people tending to our true desires. We would like to suggest that it’s not about what you are saying but it’s about what you aren’t saying.

Have you ever thought of a time in your life when you needed something different than what was offered by society. Tune in as Dom and T talk about how we as people settle for certain things instead of things we actually need. They also explain why choosing ourselves in that moment can be very liberating.

Allowing your partner to be there for you is extremely scary because honestly so many fears can set in “ do I owe them, will they ever stop doing this, can I trust them, or will they throw this back in my face later?” T and Dom share their own struggles with the vulnerability of allowing each other to be there.