“Thanks Vanessa and Xander for your episodes on sex drive mismatch, desire types, initiation and more (episodes 73, 76, 78 were so helpful!). I was about to turn to the masses on reddit for advice, when I remembered “oh, what about that cute instagram couple I followed a while ago?” I love the breadcrumb trail you leave in your episodes to other, related episodes… it’s like a pick-your-own-adventure, highly customized sex ed for the 21st century! Listening to these episodes really helped me consider my own feelings (WHY do I want more sex with my partner?) as well as consider some new ideas about what may be going on, and really get curious about his experience. I felt empowered to go into a conversation about it with my defenses down, my heart open, and ready to strategize about how to better connect….. Aaaaaaaand it doesn’t hurt that that conversation got us both really turned on and we had a great time afterwards. 🙃”
Jelly..Bean via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/30/22