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Non-monogamy is not for everyone, but maybe you are curious about it. Could it be right for you? How do non-monogamous couples deal with jealousy? I was curious myself, and the more I asked, the more I became surprised by this unexplored topic. In Polycurious I have casual and intimate conversations with non-monogamous couples, sex and relationship experts, friends, and even people who tried polyamory and realized it wasn’t for them. This podcast is for the polycurious, whether you have explored non-monogamy or not.

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    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 76 Ratings

Non-monogamy is not for everyone, but maybe you are curious about it. Could it be right for you? How do non-monogamous couples deal with jealousy? I was curious myself, and the more I asked, the more I became surprised by this unexplored topic. In Polycurious I have casual and intimate conversations with non-monogamous couples, sex and relationship experts, friends, and even people who tried polyamory and realized it wasn’t for them. This podcast is for the polycurious, whether you have explored non-monogamy or not.

    46. More Than A Mother with Molly Roden Winter

    46. More Than A Mother with Molly Roden Winter

    In the last episode of the Poly Parents mini-series I spoke to Molly Roden Winter, author of the New York Times Bestseller More: A Memoir of Open Marriage. We spoke about her experience overcoming shame as a non-monogamous mother and how opening up her marriage helped her grow and learn about herself.



    Get Molly's book here!



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    45. Poly and Pregnant with Sarah Stroh from Monogamish

    45. Poly and Pregnant with Sarah Stroh from Monogamish

    Today, I talk to writer and coach Sarah Stroh (Monogamish_me on Instagram), a week before giving birth. We speak of how becoming pregnant changed the dating game for her and put her identity as a flirty and adventurous person into question. She also tells us about what led her to decide to co-parent with a friend and how that influenced her partner. 



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    • 49 min
    44. Opening Up After Two Decades Together with Melissa and Jay (Part 2)

    44. Opening Up After Two Decades Together with Melissa and Jay (Part 2)

    In the second part of my conversation with Melissa and Jay, we discuss their transition from being open to polyamory, partially due to their three kids leaving for college. They each share their unique methods of dealing with jealousy and other challenging emotions, as well as how they've adapted to these feelings. Finally, they talk about their experience of revealing their non-monogamous relationship to their children, and the unexpected outcomes that followed.



    Resources mentioned in this episode:

    Carol & David's Episode: Unlearning Monogamy

    ⁠Esther Perel's Questions to Build Adaptability⁠



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    • 42 min
    43. Opening Up After Two Decades Together with Melissa & Jay (Part 1)

    43. Opening Up After Two Decades Together with Melissa & Jay (Part 1)

    Melissa and Jay decided to open up their marriage after two decades together. Today, they share some of the challenges they faced during that transition, such as learning how much to share about their outside relationships with one another. They also tell us how they used Craiglist (believe it or not) to find a match for their first non-monogamous date. Lastly, they give great tips around finding community.



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    42. Can Non-Monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Evolving Love Project

    42. Can Non-Monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Evolving Love Project

    Abbey and Liam are the voices behind Evolving Love Project, a platform that explores non-monogamy and conscious relationships through Abbey’s writing, their podcast, and conversation evenings and retreats in Australia.

    In our conversation they tell us how being non-monogamous has helped them reconnect with their independence and return to their family life feeling refreshed. They also reveal how their sexual relationship changed after having their son and what they did to bring back the spice and reconnect. Lastly, we speak of their experience coming out as non-monogamous parents in Australian television.



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    Resources mentioned in this episode:

    Book: Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

    Jessica Fern's Books



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    41. Getting Comfortable with MMF Threesomes with Chamberlin & Michael

    41. Getting Comfortable with MMF Threesomes with Chamberlin & Michael

    Chamberlin and Michael struggled a lot in their relationship, having periods of opening and closing, cheating and hurting each other and ultimately breaking up. About a month after they broke up, Chamberlin found out that she was pregnant. And for reasons we discuss in the podcast, this pregnancy completely shifted their relationship, for the best.

    Today we also talk about Michael’s process getting comfortable with having threesomes with other men. So if you are in a heterosexual partnership where you might want to bring a second man in, you might find some useful insights in here.

    At the end of the episode we also get an update from Mariah, my bestie and ex-cohost of Polycurious. 



    Resources discussed in the episode:

    Powderful (wellness blend)

    Costume Closet Instagram + website

    Mariah Episode 1 (the Stigma of Non-monogamy)

    Mariah Episode 13 (Changing Partners)

    Mariah + Fer Episode 25 (Best Friends Open to Play)



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Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
76 Ratings

76 Ratings

John Grees ,

My fav show

Wonderful podcast that offers valuable insights, practical advice, and thought-provoking discussions on navigating the complexities of polyamorous relationships.

JayK2024 ,

If you’re thinking about a non-conventional relationship

Engaging and informative conversations covering the entire range from those monogamous but curious to those fully polyamorous and parenting. Really great introduction to ideas and experiences in doing relationships a bit differently than the norm.

Dginz1234 ,

Just so freaking good!

We’re early on our journey and it has been so helpful to hear other peoples stories told in such an authentic way. When we opened this Pandora’s box we didn’t really know what we were getting into. Something we realized through listening to this podcast is that there are so many ways to approach polyamory. Some that untangle a thread we want to pull on, others were just not interested in exploring. Without the stories that Fer and the guest so bravely share, we’d step into uncharted territory without a map. So grateful I found it and recommend it to anybody who is even thinking about exploring the space or just interested in learning about how these stories can help them understand their broader relationships.

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