If your sex drive isn’t what it used to be and the most exciting thing that’s happened in the bedroom lately is a Netflix binge, well...you’re not alone. In the first episode of Postcards from Midlife, Lorraine and Trish find out how to rediscover desire, intimacy and pleasure with Suzi Godson, The Times sex and relationships columnist, as well as how to understand and support your teens as they start to explore their own sexuality. Plus: holidaying alone, magazine memories and women they love.   If you’d like to join the conversation, please send us your story via postcard to:    Postcards from Midlife The Sunday Times Style 1 London Bridge Street London  SE1 9GF    Or find us on www.postcardsfrommidlife.com  TWITTER: @SundayTimesLC | @TrishHalpin    And INSTAGRAM: @SundayTimesLorraine | @TrishoftheDay   For information regarding your data privacy, visit acast.com/privacy