Unfortunately, this is the case for many. Most people would rather stay in their unhappy and unhealthy mindsets than to be alone. Most people have crippling mindsets that has caused major insecurities in their lives. The greatest enemy for most is their own mindsets. If you're afraid to be alone or if you have an issue with being alone, it means you have unresolved issues that you need to deal with in order to heal, let them go, and move on. Most people are far too busy trying to find love, than trying to heal and become better individuals. People are allowing so much foolishness in their lives to be with someone who's doing nothing but cause them drama, draining them, and taking from them. This is clear sign of not loving yourself. Any time you allow and accept anything for love, it is exactly what you will get. I've always said, if they don't enhance your life, you're with the wrong person. You create the monster/s in your life. You!!! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.