This episode was recorded during Shameless Sex Podcast's first women's retreat in Costa Rica. We talk all about how to extend orgasms, anal sex safety, witchy "orgasms", and finding sexy like-minded community - all via questions and comments from actual retreat participants. Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for the next Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Click here to learn more or sign up here

In this episode four badass women come together from Double Teamed and Shameless Sex podcasts to talk all things casual sex, anal sex, DTF, secondary erogenous zones, dirty talk, non-monogamy, kink, cheating and affairs, cone dicks, spitting during sex, and beyond. Get ready to laugh and learn while getting Double Teamed by Shameless Sex. About our guests: Double Teamed Podcast is on a mission to bring awareness to non-monogamy, kink, and sexuality and help make these taboo subjects more...

Another major fan girl moment for Shameless Sex! In this episode we interview another one of our idles, Dr. Carol Queen. If you thought April was a sex toy mogul then be prepared to be wowed by the queen of sex toys and sex education. In this episode we discuss the meaning of sex-positivity, the evolution of pleasure products and sex ed, as well as our top recommendations for toys and lube. And the best part? We had the honor of recording this episode in the Antique Vibrator Museum at San...

What did working as an adult film star teach Erik Everhard about sexual mastery? Can porn teach someone to become a great lover? Why is the path to mastery is as much strategy as it is skill? What's the ultimate move or skill a man can master in the bedroom? Why is knowing when to pivot so important? And how does getting creative with different archetypes lead to different moods in the bedroom? Repeat guest and sexual master Erik Everhard answers all this and more. About our guest: Erik...

Can penis owners really have multiple orgasms in one sexual experience? If so, why have so many men never experienced it? What are the pleasure benefits of learning to have multiple orgasms? Are there health benefits as well? How can penis owners learn to have multiple orgasms? Is it hard to do? And where do they start? What if someone starts to practice learning how to have multiple orgasms but isn’t seeing any shifts. And what if my penis owning partner is multi-orgasmic and I (say a pussy...

Fan girl moment! In this episode we interview one of our idles, Tristan Taormino. We learn all about her life from her upbringing to what lead her to become a trailblazing feminist pornographer and why she's proudly known as Butt Girl. Tristan also shares advice for folks who want to watch ethical porn, as well as how to navigate shame around being turned on by rough or objectifying imagery or fantasies. Get ready to laugh, learn, and listen to an inspiring life story! About our guest:...

In this playful and deliciously provocative episode brilliant writer, sex expert and activist Zachary Zane joins us to discuss all things bisexuality. We dive into everything from the differences between bisexuality to other orientations to Zachary's own journey in uncovering and embodying his ultimate bi (and often empowered slutty) self. About our guest: Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ community. He...

How can mindfulness lead to more pleasure, better orgasms and deeper connection with lovers? Is meditation the same as mindfulness? How do mindfulness and fantasy work together? Can I be present and fantasize at the same time? What are some key tips and tools for mastering mindfulness in the bedroom? About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. She specializes in facilitating deep erotic...

What is codependency, where does it come from, and how does it show up in both casual and long term relationships? How can people work on their codependency? What about dating? What are some of the top mistakes people often make when dating while really wanting a relationship? What if I'm casually dating while looking for my longterm partner? Are there top do's and don'ts...like should I not have sex on the first date? And what do I do if I meet someone I want to dive deeper with? How and...

In the last couple of week's we've talked about sexless relationships and how to keep the fire burning in long-term partnerships, and now we are continuing the conversation with the hilarious and knowledgable Horny Housewife - specifically on "sex ruts". What is a "sex rut", why does it happen, and what can couple's do to get out of it? How can implementing sexual fantasies shift the rut? Why is “dating your spouse” so important? And does batin' aka self-pleasure really help with sex ruts and...

What are some common obstacles that contribute to couples losing the spark over time? What are some of the ways couples experience pressure around sex, where does it come from, and how can they overcome it? What skill are most important for couples to learn so they can bring sexy back and rekindle the flame, as well as keep that flame burning in the long run? What about sex, longterm relationships and parenting? What are some things that can be helpful for parents to consider? How about when...

What does it mean to be in a “sexless" relationship? Why do so many people in long-term relationships, especially marriage, start having less sex? What are some things that a lot of people do in relationships that are not helpful in keeping the fire burning? What are some ways couples can reignite the fire? And what if one partner is unwilling to shift this or says “this is just how I am, I’m just fine the way it is"? What can couples with mismatched desires/libidos do? About our guests:...

This episode features two humans from one of our new favorite podcasts called F*ck Yeah. We shamelessly discuss everything from what we've learned from past relationships, moving on after breakups and divorce (and cheating/affairs), our latest and hottest sexual revelations, non-monogamy, and so much more. Not only is this episode extra special as it was recorded by four badass podcasters poolside while sipping wine in bathing suits, but also because we at Shameless Sex forgot some of our...

What is “the lifestyle” aka swinging, and how do people get into it? Why do a lot of people enjoy swinging? What makes it so hot and fulfilling? Are key parties a part of it or still a thing? How can newbies dip their toes into the lifestyle in a way that feels really good for everyone? What about jealousy? How can people deal with it when it comes up? Swinging experts Dan and Lacy of the Swing Nation Podcast answer all this and more. About our guests: Dan and Lacy are Podcasters and Social...

What is the prostate, where is it located, and what does it do? Why is it important for penis owners to be in touch with their prostates? How does the prostate tie into sexual pleasure? Is it a sensory organ? Can it really lead multiple orgasms? Repeat guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Forrest Andrews has been one of our regular guests on Shameless sex and we’re delighted to have him back with us again. For those of you who aren’t...

Why are a lot of people uncomfortable with getting on top and riding that D? How can people become more confident in their riding skills? What if the way I ride the D isn’t what my partner likes? What is the difference between grinding, thrusting and scooting? And what is the Cowgirl Workout all about? Will it teach me to ride that D to a T? Repeat guest and riding expert Tyomi Morgan answers all this and more. About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international pleasure...

This episode is a collaboration with the amazing Stirling Cooper where he shares his wealth of knowledge about pussy pleasing, while Amy and April share their own understandings as pussy owners. Together they cover many sexy topics including foreplay, hands and finger techniques, oral sex, PIV sex, dirty talk, navigating mismatched libidos, and so much more. About our guest: Stirling Cooper is an Award Winning Australian Adult Entertainment Actor. Born in rural Western Australia Stirling...

What is being an incredible lover in casual sex and dating all about? How can I become one? How does having a self pleasure practice aka batin’ fit into this? What is "the power of the thrust"? And why is learning how to attune to my lover so important for great sex? Intimacy expert and repeat guest Fabienne Annick answers all this and more. About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery,...

Hosts Cami and Niki of the Double Teamed Podcast talk all things kink, non-monogamy, and sexuality. In this short clip, Niki talks about running into her ex-husband again at a wedding, two years after their divorce. They were in a non-monogamous turned polyamorous marriage that ended when they decided perhaps their goals for the future looked entirely different. Cami and Niki recount the emotional reunion and discuss re-escalation. To learn more about Double Teamed or to listen to more...

It’s Anal August! So let’s get the party started by talking about buttholes. Why are so many people are into anal stimulation? Why are some people anti-anal? What are some key tips for safe and pleasurable anal play? What about the prostate? What is it, where is it, and what does it do? If I have a prostate, how can I stimulate it? Will it lead to bigger orgasms? And how can I stimulate my partner's prostate? Return guest Charlie Glickman, PhD answers all this and so much more. Happy Anal...

What are double penetration (DP) and vaginal fisting all about and why are people into it? Is it just something we see in porn or are people actually doing these things in real life? What are the do's and don'ts to having successful, pleasurable DP or fisting experiences? From toys to techniques to personal stories from wild experiences, repeat guest Rain DeGrey explains all this and so much more. About our guest: Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and...

Breakups suck! How can I heal from a breakup or divorce without the breakup breaking me? What of my ex quickly moves on to some else? What is a "toxic relationship", and what are the signs someone might be in one? Why do so many people find themselves in toxic relationships? What if I know my relationship is not good for me? How can I exit a painful relationship and rebuild my self-worth after?  About our guest: Meleah is a certified trauma-informed relationship mentor, specializing in...

What are some of the reasons why soft cocks happen (in other words, why do they sometimes have difficulty getting hard)? When it comes to soft cocks, or sex in general, why is it important to expand our definition of sex? What are some of the ways and techniques for both self and partnered sex and pleasure with a soft cock? Michelle Renee, creator of Soft Cock Week discusses all this and more. Hurray for soft cocks! About our guest: Michelle Renee (she/her), is an intimacy guide based in San...

What is a Sex IQ, and how do I know what my sex IQ is? What are the 5 pillars of someone’s sex IQ, and how can people can apply them to have “smarter”, hotter sex? Why is "communication lubrication", "me time we time", and the brain our largest sex organ? Repeat guest, dear friend and Shameless Sex's number one podcast idol Dr. Emily Morse of the Sex With Emily podcast discusses all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Emily Morse is a doctor of human sexuality and the host of the...

What is Urogynecology? Why does pelvic organ prolapse happen, how does this affect sex, and what are some of the options or procedures available? How does hormone optimization fit into this? If I have a hysterectomy will my sex drive be gone forever? What about penis-owner’s sexual health optimization? What can they do and what should they know ASAP? Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille NP answer all this and more. About our guests: Dr. Castillo is a Fellowship-trained Female Pelvic Medicine...