In this hilarious yet insightful episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim dive into a variety of thought-provoking and entertaining topics, exploring everything from Bobby's trip to Charleston, the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ couples trying to adopt, to the ongoing issues surrounding gun control and mental health in the United States. Bobby kicks off the episode by recounting his recent trip to Charleston, a city that he likens to a southern frat house with a dark history. He discusses his run-in with a flight attendant and the discomfort he felt while exploring the city's past. Bobby also shares a wild story about a fight that broke out at a sushi restaurant bar, which led to him nearly vomiting up his sushi. Switching gears, Jim recounts his recent change of luck, having met two attractive guys and attending a Betty Who concert on a whim. The duo then delves into the complicated subject of adoption, discussing the high costs and barriers faced by queer couples like Jim's nail tech Carmen and her partner. They touch on the hypocrisy of outlawing abortions while making adoption a challenging and expensive process, wondering what the solution could be. The conversation takes a turn as Bobby and Jim discuss the ongoing violence in Mexico and the tension between Canada, the United States, and Mexico. They reminisce about their childhoods, confessing to snooping on their parents and pondering whether their parents snooped on them too. The hosts find themselves discussing the awkward experiences of being nude in locker rooms with older men who have grooming issues. They then tackle the topic of Pride Night in the NHL, criticizing the organization for failing to address players opting out even though it's a charity event. Addressing a serious topic, Bobby and Jim discuss the recent mass shooting in a Nashville, Tennessee school. They express concern about the fact that the shooter was transgender and worry about the potential increase in attacks against trans people as a result. The duo laments the lack of progress on gun control and the shortcomings of the American system, touching on issues like poverty-stricken individuals joining the military and returning with untreated mental health problems due to the inadequate healthcare system. Jim opens up about his childhood trauma and the lack of boundaries he experienced growing up, wondering how it has affected his mental health. The episode concludes with a segment called "Sundries," where Jim vents about gym bros constantly posting their workouts on social media, and Bobby shares his annoyance with people who make a big move, only to flood their Facebook feeds with inspirational quotes about taking chances. This engaging and candid episode of "Not Well" covers a wide range of topics, from personal experiences to societal issues. Bobby and Jim tackle these subjects with humor and empathy, making for an enjoyable and thought-provoking listen. Support the showAs always you can write us at [email protected] or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell