#SpillTheT Rifky and Devorah

The topic of grief is a lot to unpack, and that’s why we’re putting this out now, during the Chanukah season at such a time of light. What is grief - this deep pain/sorrow from losing a loved one/ something you lost
-the end of a relationship, whether it’s dating, workmates, “the end of an era”
-Weirdest thing about grief -
-The Kubler-Ross model suggests five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. However, not everyone experiences these stages, and they don't necessarily occur in a linear fashion.
Listen along- and as always your feedback is ALWAYS valued 🖤🤍🖤 #studio #hotopics #interesting #convos #deepthoughts we mean #business #glamlife #girlboss #hustle #ambition #Grief #Growth. This is the real reason to 🥂 to #2024 #podcast #spotify #ontheroad #collaboration

We are joined by Mr. Shimon Willig, who is a Financial Advisor and Lecturer specializing in  Tax and Estate Planning + 401(K) 


IRAs (Roth and General)
Mutual Fund investing
Stocks,  Robinhood? Blue chips? Crypto’s
Are Bonds still a “thing”
Anything you think is relevant for young people to know regarding: investing, what you would tell your younger self, children…
When is too early or is it ever too late to start investing
What's the biggest mistake you see young people making with their money
How much does raising  a child cost, not from a religious standpoint but as a framework to understand future financial planning
When is the “right” time to speak to a financial advisor
How does it work when buying a home, e.g. if someone has 100K in savings, against a mortgage?
More sensitive, in your experience do couples automatically join accounts or is it gradual? Recommend?

#spillthet Listen along- and as always your feedback is ALWAYS valued 🖤🤍🖤 #studio #hotopics #interesting #convos #deepthoughts we mean #business #glamlife #girlboss #hustle #ambition #money #finance101 #millenial #realtalk #budgeting #moneydescisions Introducing the real reason to 🍻 to #2023 #podcast #spotify #ontheroad #collaboration

R&D Spilling the Tea with Hannah, who we had on in season 2 as a dating coach, Hannah is also a life coach and in this episode, we will be discussing beauty and self-confidence and getting her insights through that perspective.


What is beauty? Is there an actual definition? #MAHRABU
“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”
Chein is a thing
Attracting vs. Attractive 
Miriam Pascal's "WE HAVE A WEIGHT PROBLEM" Mishpacha feature on self-image
The #halo effect, #disney princess dysmorphia... and of course #tealights



#spillthet Listen along- and as always your feedback is ALWAYS valued 🖤🤍🖤 #studio #hotopics #interesting #convos #deepthoughts we mean #business #glamlife #girlboss #hustle #ambition #dating #datingcoach #shidduchdating #realtalk #bodyimage #selfconfidence Introducing the real reason to 🍻 to #2023 #podcast #spotify #ontheroad #collaboration

Welcome back to Season3 of #SpillTheT
We are so excited to sit down with Meaningful Minute Founder and CEO, Nachi Gordon

How the transition from NBA sports agent to full-time Meaningful 
Do you ever get overwhelmed by the numbers? People relying on the daily inspo?
Haters gonna hate; how to handle? @MoshefromQueens
Pivot & Growth 
Wim hof Breathing #nerves
Shalom Task Force, Amudim...conversations that are necessary to have 
Favorite Guests?

#spillthet Listen along- and as always your feedback is ALWAYS valued 🖤🤍🖤 #studio #hotopics #interesting #convos #deepthoughts we mean #business #glamlife #girlboss #hustle #ambition #dating #datingcoach #shidduchdating #realtalk Introducing the real reason to 🍻 to #2023 #podcast #spotify #ontheroad #collaboration

What makes the beginning of something so amazing is the infinite potential.
Anything we hope for can come to fruition. Like a new job, relationship, or even a baby…everything we’ve always manifested can happen at the cusp of this “new reali"tea"

In this new year, we hope you live louder
We hope you laugh more
Smile more
Connect more
With Hashem, those around you, and with the things that set your soul on fire.
We hope you sing at the top of your lungs to your favorite song, driving with windows down. We hope you surround yourself with people who make you feel alive.
With friends that went from being perfect strangers to the best imperfect family.
Find your People who support you and believe in you when you can't do that for yourself.
Those who bring out the best in you, and you in them-
We hope you become the person that brings good energy wherever you go and the type of person people want to be around;
We hope you speak what's on your mind.
To be confident in yourself and in your dreams,
Tell others that you love them,
To find self-love-
To discover your own worth and not base it on anything or anyone.
We hope you live louder and shine brighter,
This is your year.

#sweetyear #shanatova #newyear #freshstart #cleanslate #thestartofsomethingnew #season2 🖤🤍🖤 #studio #hotopics #interesting #convos #deepthoughts we mean #business #glamlife #girlboss #hustle #ambition #growth #realtalk Introducing the real reason to 🍻 to #2022 #podcast #spotify #ontheroad #collaboration #season2

R&D + co-host and 3.0 guest Mrs. Lisa Elefant, founder of AAS; we are excited to be joined by fellow shadchanim and dating coaches, Raquel Betesh, Ruchie Cohn, and Hannah Kahana. 

“Hishtadlus”/ “Doing Dating Differently” - we all love that word🫠
For singles (our take ) and what it also “looks like” on the shadchanim side
- For a shadchan-thinking of ideas, redting them, to push or not to push?
- Examples of hishtadlus- meeting shadchanim, events, making events, shabbos meals, programs, networking in a more natural setting, daven daven, and daven. If Amuka is where you feel it’s at then go, but if davening in your backyard gives you just as much menuchas hanefesh that’s your hishtadlus, burnout from “segulas”
- Quantity vs. Quality - regarding networking/meeting shadchanim- better for “more people” to know you or just the “right ones”…?  Remember when Lisa told us a guy said “you're my only shadchan”
- Keeping things fresh with AAS Shidduch initiatives- #zoom, #nixthepics, “BMG” “be my guest”, wedding redting, ubermeets etc, SHABBATONS….
- recipes & resumes 🤍👩🏻‍🍳
- Trusting yourself- knowing when you need “help” or a push, using a dating coach, etc is that part of singles hishtadlus? = LISA + FELLOW SHADCHAN COACHES
-At what point do you like to meet your singles, before their dates (e.g. have  a relationship before, so you're familiar with their “what’s normal” (coaches)
-In your opinion who benefits more from a coach, the girls or the guys- yes guys might be a little lax on cues but girls can sometimes be too much in their heads (coaches)
- Taking breaks- necessary but to what degree? To avoid feeling burnt out, the “older” a single gets, can they “afford to”..?
Tea lights: Efforts you feel a single can take to maximize their quality exposure 
#spillthet Listen along- and as always your feedback is ALWAYS valued 🖤🤍🖤 #studio #hotopics #interesting #convos #deepthoughts we mean #business #glamlife #girlboss #hustle #ambition #dating #datingcoach #shidduchdating #realtalk Introducing the real reason to 🍻 to #2022 #podcast #spotify #ontheroad #collaboration