This is an unusual episode, because I am interviewing my own partner! I wanted him to share how he chose me. Because this man has impressed me deeply since I met him, and the process of being "wooed" by him was extraordinary.  I know that I can be intimidating to men, purely because I am a well-known Tantra teacher. That in itself can be enticing, but also intimidating. In the past I had men approach me to get something from me, or there was a power struggle there. But with Shahid, he stood solidly in his own power, in his own center, whilst choosing me fully. In this chat, we talk about our story. How a garden designer from North Netherlands came about choosing a powerful tantrika who lived in Asia. How he overcame his fears. How he moved from polyamory to going deep with one, and why. The journey from the first kiss to a full surrender of the heart. We made this to inspire others. Our path is not for everyone. But we hope that there is something there for others like us, who wish to find  way to be empowered and yet in love. Find us together at www.thetantriccouple.com where we run retreats for couples. For women: joi us this weekend for the Call in Your King Symposium https://livetantra.kartra.com/page/callinyourking