Unpacking the aftermath of our encounter with Guy #3, from Hubby's initial response to our increased libido, and my lingering insecurities about communication with the Bull. In response to several queries about screening, I also discuss how our screening process has evolved since starting our Hotwife journey, with some insights on what Hubby now looks for when vetting.  I also go over a Clubhouse chat I hosted in December - it was a fascinating and stimulating conversation, but as a...

It's taken a while but we're back! Things got a little rough for us, particularly for me in the middle of the year, but we are back on track and happily exploring our Hotwife fantasies again.  We wanted to share with you our most recent encounter with Guy #3, the Bodybuilder. It was a profound experience and has gone to show that some of that kinky bedroom talk can actually become a reality! It was a super fun, easy, intense, adventurous night, which has gotten us excited to see where this...

This is Part 2 - listen to the first part in Episode 15. Oh, what a fun night! We're definitely on the tail end of our Hero's journey through the initiation in the Lifestyle - our confidence is building, we're clearer about our standards, and we're dealing with the ups and downs more effectively. Guy #2 kept us guessing in the lead-up, but we persisted and had a great time. I learn that verbal connection isn't everything - particularly when it's well compensated with a good sexual...

Oh, what a fun night! We're definitely on the tail end of our Hero's journey through the initiation into the Lifestyle - our confidence is building, we're clearer about our needs and standards, and we're dealing with the ups and downs more effectively. Guy #2 kept us guessing in the lead-up, but we persisted and had a great time. I learn that verbal connection isn't everything - particularly when it's well compensated with a good sexual connection. Oh, and I break a rule in the heat of the...

We've had a few people ask about the 34 rules that govern our Hotwife play, so I go through each of them in this episode. The Rules were largely birthed from our encounters with The Devil (see Episode 3) and, going through them again, I think they are all still relevant and worthy rules for us. Many of the Rules are simple guiding principles for how we conduct ourselves in our play, and how we relate to the others are playing with.  Please join us at...

We've finally bounced back from the feelings of being deflated and lost in Episode 12, and are feeling significantly more confident about what we are looking for and how we communicate that. I'm starting to make peace with the Hotwife journey - the ups, downs, wins, disappointments, flakes and feelings of rejection. And with a fresh new profile, I'm looking forward to more fun in the future... whenever it happens! Please join us at https://www.reddit.com/r/TheAuthenticHotwife_/ for episode...

I took the 'diary entry' approach in this episode and just mind dumped about our recent frustrations with dealing with flaky single males and juggling the Hotwife lifestyle with our other life responsibilities. I also describe myself in more depth for those curious about what I look like. (As a side note, Hubby says he definitely wouldn't describe me as overweight and says my curves are sexy, aww!) We ask a lot of questions and are seeking advice and feedback, please join us at...

Finally! After losing the file from our first interview, I am so glad to finally share this robust interview with US-based Hotwife couple, Mr and Mrs Zee, with you all. Mr Zee keeps it real with some very important vetting tips while Mrs Zee delights in sharing the joys of being a Hotwife. You can reach Mr and Mrs Zee at [email protected] Share your thoughts in the Episode Discussion at reddit.com/r/TheAuthenticHotwife_

Happy New Year everyone! So our New Year’s Eve experience was... interesting. Hotwife Fever took over me and I broke many of our established protocols to make the encounter happen, which resulted in a less than desirable encounter. Our Scouting and Screening process is solidified, and fortunately the aftermath still resulted in some crazy hot sex with Hubby. Visit reddit.com/r/TheAuthenticHotwife_ for episode follow up discussion, or contact TAH by email at [email protected]

Sam, a lovely, respectful Bull from the US, reached out to me on Reddit today, and within an hour we were on a phone call having a very enjoyable and insightful conversation while Hubby listened in. Sam shares his taboo Hotwife experiences with us while validating us and encouraging us to stay true to ourselves as we explore the lifestyle and our dynamic. A great listen for the curious as we break down the Hotwife lifestyle, how to overcome challenges, and what the lifestyle is like from a...

The author of 'The Ethical Slut' wrote about the power and freedom that comes with 'talking incessantly' with others about alternative lifestyles and going on a journey to explore ourselves and others.  We have been so privileged to hear from listeners from different parts of the globe, of different ages and stages of their journey, and it has been nice to continue to deepen our understanding of Hotwife through the ensuing conversations. Referenced in the episode:...

Take two! It became apparent pretty quickly that we made a glaringly obvious, very un-Covid-safe choice in our Second encounter. I talk about the mistake and the lesson, wins and takeaways from the encounter, as well as my thoughts on what Hotwife has taught me about male sexuality and why women may not understand it. 

Here are some of my deeper thoughts following our second encounter. Interestingly, this encounter brought up some of Hubby's insecurities moreso than in my own. I found it deeply satisfying, while Hubby needed time to process some unexpected emotions. 

We had our second successful encounter! While there was definitely some frustrating moments when setting it up, we had another great experience, this time in the guy's home. Sensual, passionate and intimate.. then we went back to our hotel room for the reclaiming...

Getting started on our Hotwife journey was hard and confusing! Despite being a common sexual fantasy, there are relatively few resources dedicated to helping couples navigate and understand the Hotwife lifestyle. In this episode I go through some of the books, blogs and websites that helped me understand and conceptualise the weird and wonderful world of Hotwife.

Reflections one week after our first encounter. Consensus between us is it was still an incredible experience, however there is some emotional aftermath to contend with.

Finally - we did it! We made our fantasy a reality. Hubby watched me play with a sexy, charming, respectful stud... and much fun was had by all.

One of our biggest challenges, and ultimately the biggest period of growth in our Hotwife play, happened when ‘The Devil’ came into our lives. He shook us up and left us a little raw, but also much clearer in how we wanted to move forward with the Lifestyle.

We have been experimenting with Hotwife play for over five years... not much, but enough to learn some important lessons. Here are some stories from the early days...

Introducing us as a couple, how my partner pitched hotwife to me, why I like it and why I started this podcast.