Do you have too many options that you are having a difficult time choosing? There is a concept called "Opportunity Cost," which some consider a fancy word for "trade-off." In other words, every time you make a choice, there is a trade-off to consider. Another way is to change how you view potential opportunities with extreme discrimination. You can do that with one question - "Does this opportunity provide the fastest and most direct path for me to reach my goals?" Now, before we go on, it's easy to look at almost any opportunity and justify a path. Especially if you are being persuaded by someone else - and know that NEVER happens. If you want to break free from a stalled life, you must eliminate maybe from your life.  Only a yes or no will create the momentum you desire.