Episodes
Listen to this episode if you: Are frustrated with a disclosure issue in your divorce proceedings. Feel stumped by disclosure hurdles on your journey to freedom. Key Ideas: Reframing Full Disclosure: Learn why the term "full disclosure" can be ambiguous and potentially derail your settlement negotiations. Importance of Specificity: Understand the significance of specifying the exact documents or information necessary for your case rather than demanding blanket "full...
Published 04/30/24
Has your ex just told you that they are the bread winner so therefore in the divorce they will get most of the property settlement? Has your ex just quit their job so they avoid paying child support? Has your ex downplayed your contributions in the marriage. Or are you just plain confused about what is considered in divorce when it comes to income/salary/wages. Well this episode is for you. Learn about how salary and earnings impact property division and child support in divorce proceedings....
Published 04/23/24
Published 04/23/24
Everyone seems to start talking about the percentage split in divorce for property straight away. In this episode, you will learn about the dangers of negotiating property split percentages prematurely in your divorce proceedings. We aim to help you discover why it's crucial to prioritise understanding the property pool before discussing percentages, as well as the potential financial and emotional costs of jumping into percentage negotiations too soon.  Understand how focusing on property...
Published 04/16/24
In this episode, you will learn about the recent changes to family law in Australia and how they affect you. Discover the shift from equal shared parental responsibility to joint decision making, as well as the elimination of the presumption of equal shared care. Understand the importance of prioritising children's best interests and the revamped role of independent children's lawyers. Explore simplified consequences for breaching court orders and gain practical advice for adapting to these...
Published 04/09/24
Listen to this episode if you or a friend: Are nervous or unsure how to report domestic violence or coercive control to the police. Want to understand the process and what happens after you report it. Need guidance on evidence collection and seeking support. Are interested in safety planning and available resources. Seek reassurance and empowerment in navigating the challenging situations involving domestic violence. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of...
Published 04/01/24
This is the Pep Talk you didn’t know you needed when going through your divorce or separation. This episode serves as both a pep talk and a strategic guide for you navigating divorce or separation. Learn about the importance of proactive communication, assertiveness, and informed decision-making when dealing with legal representation, your ex and the family court.  Ultimately, "Just Ask" serves as an empowering reminder that while divorce proceedings can be daunting, you actually have the...
Published 03/25/24
Tackle the sensitive issue of parental trash talk during divorce and its impact on your children. Lyn, a Family Lawyer and Specialist provides valuable insights into understanding the dynamics of trash talk, its effects on children's mental health, and strategies for co-parents to shield their kids from harmful conversations.  From navigating legal perspectives to empowering coping mechanisms, this episode offers guidance to help you create a supportive environment for your children amidst...
Published 03/19/24
During your divorce effective communication is key.  But what happens when you get sent big long ranting letters that take negotiations in circles instead of to settlement. In this episode you will gain valuable guidance on managing legal correspondence with your ex-partner or their representation. Learn the art of decoding divorce legal letters with their seven-step approach. 🛤️ Navigating the Rocky Terrain: Discover the significance of detaching emotional reactions from effective...
Published 03/12/24
In this empowering episode, a legal negotiation expert shares valuable insights on navigating the challenging terrain of divorcing a narcissist. With a focus on strategy, leverage, anticipation, and personal empowerment, Laura & Lyn provide a roadmap for you to not only survive but thrive in the face of a narcissistic ex-spouse. For Full Show Notes go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/blog For more support go to www.thedivorcecourse.com.au 🔍 Key Takeaways: Strategy is Key: Learn the...
Published 03/05/24
Living beyond the age of fifty and deciding to end a long-term marriage comes with its unique set of challenges and Laura and Lyn are here to help navigate those waters. With a blend of legal insights and personal anecdotes, this podcast serves as a beacon of support for those entering the uncharted waters of grey divorces   In this episode, the essential topics of asset division, spousal maintenance, gender roles, and future planning are explored. Gain some valuable insights into...
Published 02/27/24
Tax Savvy Divorce: Shielding Yourself from Financial Surprises In this illuminating episode, Lyn and financial expert Pedro Marin explore the often-overlooked intricacies of taxation during divorce. Unpacking complexities, they offer insights into protecting yourself from tax debt surprises and potential dramas involving businesses, companies, and trusts. Here's why this series is a must-listen: Why Listen: Financial Shielding: Pedro Marin, a seasoned financial expert, provides strategies...
Published 02/20/24
Are you facing intimidation or bullying in your divorce proceedings? In this empowering episode, Laura asks her experienced family lawyer mother to share crucial insights and actionable education to help you stand up against bullying tactics at every stage of the legal process. Key Topics: Dealing with legal threats: Learn effective strategies for responding to threats and intimidation. Documenting incidents: Discover the importance of documenting bullying incidents and threats for...
Published 02/12/24
Ready to demystify mediation and get the lowdown on five myths that might be messing with your understanding and potentially your chance to settle and stay out of court? Join us on this episode as we unravel the complexities of mediation, offering you insights that will boost your confidence and make you see things in a whole new light. Forget what you've heard, and let's kick off the myth-busting right here on "The Divorce Course Podcast." Whether it's on your radar or just a possibility...
Published 02/06/24
Are you struggling with the complexities of a potential upcoming custody battle, or fearing the potential impact on your parental rights if you leave your partner? If so, this episode is perfect for you. If you’ve just broken up with your ex you may not yet be thinking about these 6 things, but you should. This episode serves as a reminder that during custody battles, past actions may be scrutinised like a "movie star" under a spotlight, and every detail could potentially be used in court....
Published 01/30/24
Sign up here for our next free online webinar Are you facing a divorce, property settlement and custody battle with a narcissist? In this enlightening episode, we are joined by a Master High Conflict Negotiation Coach Mia Madafferi, Founder of Grey Rock Consulting to unravel the complexities of divorcing a narcissist while maintaining your sanity and control.   Explore the transformative power of mindset in the face of legal abuse and coercive control. Gain insights into anticipating...
Published 01/23/24
Wondering how your property pool will be divided in your divorce and what future considerations impact your share?  Tune in to this enlightening episode where a distinguished family law specialist, backed by 35+ years of expertise in law, explains what the Family Law Act's Section 75 means in relation to property settlement percentages adjustments. Gain invaluable insights into the crucial factors that can sway your property split percentage. This episode is your overview look for those...
Published 01/16/24
Are you finding yourself staring at the ceiling, gripped by divorce-related stress and anxiety, unable to fall asleep at 2 am? Is your mediation or family court event looming, and your lawyer has said to make sure you get a good sleep? Ever wondered how lack of sleep amplifies the toll on your decision-making abilities during these challenging times? If these questions resonate, then this episode is for you. Join us as we navigate the intricate connection between sleep and divorce stress...
Published 01/09/24
Embarking on the journey of property settlement amid divorce or separation might seem overwhelming, but fret not – our latest podcast episode is your friendly guide through the process. Gain a comprehensive overview, enriched with expert insights and practical tips, to navigate this challenging terrain. Uncover the key elements of a successful property settlement and delve into the wisdom of Lyn, our seasoned expert, as she navigates high-conflict scenarios and sheds light on handling...
Published 01/02/24
If you are facing your first Christmas whilst going through your divorce, this episode is for you. A lighter bonus episode that explores 8 issues that people face when it’s Christmas and how to consider navigating it with your co parent or ex.   * Can you access your lawyer over Christmas? What happens with Family Court over Christmas? Why you need to learn to say “Christmas is when you say it is.” How to deal with Christmas alone or without the kids. Navigating Christmas...
Published 12/19/23
If you are still in a world of coercive control even after separation or you’ve left a coercive controlling relationship and you are still having difficulty with your ex then this episode is for you. Join us as we shed light on 12 signs that coercive control is still happening even after separation from your ex. Learn about the emotional trenches often dug by abusers post-separation and learn some strategies and gain some knowledge on how to navigate this rough terrain whilst going through...
Published 12/11/23
If you are still in a world of coercive control even after separation or you’ve left a coercive controlling relationship and you are still having difficulty with your ex then this episode is for you. Join us as we shed light on 12 signs that coercive control is still happening even after separation from your ex. Learn about the emotional trenches often dug by abusers post-separation and learn some strategies and gain some knowledge on how to navigate this rough terrain whilst going through...
Published 12/05/23
Wondering what happens to your superannuation when you get divorced or separated? Is it simply yours to keep, or is it considered part of the property pool to be divided and shared? These are important questions that many people have, and this podcast episode has the answers you need. During a divorce or separation, it's easy to focus on the physical assets like houses, cars, and furniture. Don’t let your superannuation or theirs be overlooked. Fear not, this episode is here to guide you...
Published 11/28/23
Do you know your separation date? Do you know why it is important for divorce or de facto separation ? Do you know how to document it? Are you going through a difficult divorce and finding yourselves separated under one roof? Do you feel stuck and unsure of what steps to take next? Look no further! In this podcast episode, Laura and her Mother, a Family Law Specialist provide education and practical tips on navigating the challenges of living with your ex during a divorce and 5 tips and ways...
Published 11/21/23
Are you feeling drained and defeated the aftermath of a failed mediation or family dispute resolution? Listen to this episode to gain essential insights to guide you through the challenges that follow a family law mediation gone wrong. Key Takeaways:         Demolishing Arguments: CIA-Level Investigation Discover the importance of scrutinising your ex-partner's arguments post-mediation. Lynette reveals her method of creating a list of objections and systematically demolishing them with...
Published 11/14/23