“Youtalktoofast.
^^ I’ve changed my mind about this previous review, and I am now fully acclimated to your delivery.
I am interested in what you had to say about watching porn, Episode 241, in which you advised the emailer to evaluate the role of porn in her husband/partner’s life.
Here’s an observation or two:
When I was married to my Husband No. 1, I would fall asleep before he did, and during that semi-conscious interval between wakefulness and sleep, I would be aware of the bed shaking due to his masturbating.
This was way before internet and social media, so his only access to porn was a nightly reading of the magazine “Penthouse”, with occasionally consuming the zine known as “Playboy”.
We also would occasionally watch porn videos on
VCR, and two titles come to mind: “Garage Girls”, which featured the women dressed in those iconic mechanic’s overalls. The overalls would frequently flap open to reveal the woman’s breasts or fall down to their waist or even lower, as the Girls performed their various automotive tasks.
Then there was “Debbie Does Dallas” which became a cult classic, and is, to this day, well known.
Neither one of these 3 activities caused me any insecurity or jealousy and/or envy, because I knew that I was No. 1 and always would be. I did not in
not in any way feel “threatened” by these behaviors and I even joined in the party on some occasions by using the porn to enhance my own pleasure. (If ya can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em”.)
Watching porn only becomes an issue when the relationship is on shaky ground to begin with, and it is easy to interpret the “porn factor” as proof of a suspected general lack of interest.”
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03/21/21