Some people say that you can't have everything in this world- Like money, independence AND love? But in this episode, we're debunking that myth. If you're a successful high achiever who feels in control and confident when you're single but totally lose yourself and become anxious when you're in a relationship, listen up to today's episode. I talk about why this isn't your fault, discuss three reasons why Attachment is the culprit- Listen until the end to learn how to be that same person who's capable of giving AND receiving love. Are you a High Achiever or entrepreneur who wants to attract and keep the fulfilling relationship of your dreams, but past emotional baggage is getting in the way? 💔 My small-group coaching is launching in November! ⁠You'll get to work with me in a healing, safe space to transform your love life with the power of Inner Child healing- 📧⁠- DM with the words "HIGH ACHIEVER" @bygloriazhang or email me at [email protected]! Episode Highlights: One of the reasons why this is happening: You don't know how "NOT" to be the giverThe big possibility of attracting people who want to be taken care of because of this "caretaker" mindsetBeing overly attached to being independent might actually be a "mask" in neglecting your insecurities and vulnerabilities, which is somehow "exposed" when you're in a relationshipBeing in a relationship might be activating unresolved core wounds of abandonment, trust, neglect or guiltPracticing self-compassion as a way to change these kinds of trauma responsesCall to Action: Take back your power and be kind to yourself, get back to doing things that make you safe on the inside, and check out my programs for more helpful tips!Want even More? Work with me by messaging or emailing me "HIGH ACHIEVER" to join the new rebooted version of the Academy!Get Gloria's FREE Guide to Inner Child Healing!Follow Gloria on Instagram for helpful tips: @bygloriazhang