Episodes
Welcome to NK Podcast 278. In this episode, titled "Between Two Homes ~ Bradley Craig Part II," we're thrilled to continue our enlightening conversation with Bradley S. Craig, author of "Between 2 Homes." Bradley, a mediator and family dynamics expert, dives deep into the intricacies of co-parenting, our terminology, and the evolving structures of blended families.
Lori and Bradley discuss why he prefers the term "period of responsibility" over "period of possession." We unpack the concept...
Published 09/27/24
Welcome to NK Podcast 277, where we dive deep into the complexities of blended families, co-parenting, and everything in between. In today's episode, Lori has the pleasure of speaking with esteemed guest Bradley S Craig, a Licensed Master Social Worker and Certified Family Life Educator, known for his insightful book Between 2 Homes. Today’s conversation ranges from the nuanced roles of stepparents to the intricacies of custody modifications, all the way through effective co-parenting...
Published 09/20/24
Welcome to Episode 276 of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this episode, hosts David and Lori discuss some of the complexities of stepfamily dynamics with special guests Will and his stepmom Jo. Jo, who has no biological children and has been in a relationship with Will’s father for four years. They explore Will’s transition from living with his mother to moving full-time with his father and Jo, discussing how responsibilities and structure have positively impacted his life. Will opens up about the...
Published 09/13/24
Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! This is Episode 275, and we have a jam-packed show for you today. I'm your host, David, and as always, I'm joined by the wonderful Lori. We have some thrilling updates and announcements and an insightful conversation about expectations in blended families.
We'll kick things off with our upcoming events—starting with a meet and greet in Denver, Colorado. If you're in the area, don't miss this chance to connect with us! Plus,...
Published 09/06/24
Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this enlightening episode, hosts David and Lori dive deep into the complexities of blended family dynamics just in time for the holiday season. Tune in as they share insights on upcoming events like the 5th Annual Step Family Summit with Claudette Chenevert and the release of exciting challenges such as the Nacho Guided "Change Your Stinking Thinking" Challenge, and a special opportunity for our podcast listeners.
Lori and David discuss navigating...
Published 08/30/24
Welcome to Episode 273 of the NK Podcast, "Nacho Parenting Really Works!" Today, Lori dives into the fascinating dynamics of blended families with her special guest, Mikel Van Cleve, a certified financial planner with a unique personal story. Mikel opens up about embarking on a whirlwind romance that led to marriage just three months later. We explore their challenges with differing parenting styles, their impact on their children, and the innovative Nacho Parenting technique that transformed...
Published 08/23/24
Welcome to NK Podcast! In today's episode, we dive deep into the intricate world of blended families with our special guest, Matthew Steiner. As a Christian stepdad who has navigated the complexities of step-parenting and the "Nacho" method, Matthew shares his journey of balancing faith, family dynamics, and the emotional challenges that come with being a stepparent.
Matthew opens up about his personal experiences, including the frustrations of not being able to control decisions and...
Published 08/16/24
Welcome to another episode of the NK Podcast! Today we’re diving into a compelling and deeply personal conversation with an anonymous stepmom, who shares her experience navigating the complex dynamics of blended family life. In this episode, anonymous stepmom discusses her struggle with being overprotective, and the challenges posed by her partner’s high-conflict ex. We’ll explore how she juggles being a step-parent, dealing with traumatic events, and maintaining her mental health through...
Published 08/09/24
In this episode, Lori talks with Keri, a stepmom of four years who has one bio kid and two stepkids, well technically one stepkid. The other stepkid is not her partner’s biological child and stopped coming for visitation about two years ago. This is her second blended family. Her first blend lasted eight years, and Keri was very involved in her stepdaughter’s life. After swearing to never date anyone else with kids, she met her now husband and yep, ended up in another blend. And guess what?...
Published 08/02/24
In this episode, Lori and David talk to family law attorney Billie Tarascio of Modern Law. Billie supports the Nacho method and discusses some family court issues.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Nacho Kids
Family court challenges
Self-representation
Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
“My son and his new wife are a blended family. I joined the Academy in hopes of learning things to help them navigate their blend. It was absolutely amazing the amount of content in the...
Published 07/26/24
In this episode, Lori and David talk to two of David’s kids about moving back home after the military, Yoo Hoo gate, and how they viewed things as stepkids.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Rebounding stepkids
Yoo Hoo gate
Perception
Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
“I have never been so happy in our blend! This Nacho stuff is awesome! If you are debating on joining the Academy, don’t debate any longer, do it today. You will not regret it! It’s life-changing!” ~ A.N.
Published 07/20/24
Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast, Episode 267. Today, Lori, David, and our iconic Nacho Intro Lady dive into the challenges of stepfamilies, starting with the important question: "When will my partner love my kid like their own?" Tune in as we explore the common struggles faced by blended families, share real feedback from our latest Nacho Kids Boot Camp Challenge, and address listener questions about step-parenting dynamics, from the usefulness of "nachoing" from day one to managing...
Published 07/12/24
In this episode, Lori and David answer questions submitted by followers. These questions are based solely on the question without having any details of the person’s dynamics.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
How do you get a Disneyland parent to stop guilt parenting?
How to get your grown up stepkid to allow you to see the grandchildren more?
How do you nacho stuff that directly affects you?!
Does it get better after they all turn 18?
Is blending always this hard?
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Published 07/05/24
In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to Stepdad Sean. Sean has been blending for over two years. His biological kids are no longer at home, and he has three stepsons who all live in the house. Sean has raised his kids and doesn’t feel he should have to help raise the stepkids. The stepkids have poor manners and are a bit spoiled. He fights for that parental role because he doesn’t understand being a husband without being a parent.
In this episode, we discuss...
Published 06/28/24
In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, speaks with Krista St-Germain about navigating grief as a stepparent. As a widow, stepkid, and stepparent, Krista shares her journey and wisdom. Her stepdad stayed in his lane and her stepmom was a little more authoritative.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Supporting a partner when you have different parenting views
Secondary losses
Five stages of grief
Time in relation to grief
Respecting previous...
Published 06/21/24
In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, speaks with family law attorney Rachel King. Rachel has been practicing family law for over 10 years. Her parents divorced when she was very young. Rachel shares her story of being a stepkid with us.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Bashing the other parent
Being forced to call stepmom “mom”
Differences in parenting in different homes
Parentification
Co-parenting
Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
“As...
Published 06/14/24
In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to Anthony J. Mohr. Anthony’s father, Gerald Mohr, was a well-known radio actor before slipping to the Hollywood B-list thanks to the advent of television. Accepting the lead in a dying Swedish TV series, he fell for the script girl and divorced Mohr’s mother, who went on to meet and marry another divorced person, credit card industry pioneer Stanley Dashew.
As his stepfather’s career rose and his biological father’s eased...
Published 06/07/24
In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to Lisa Johnson. Lisa is co-author, along with her partner Chris Barry, of “Been There Got Out.” Like Lori and David, Lisa and Chris use their first-hand experience to help others.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Toxic relationships
High conflict divorce
Legal abuse
Coercive control
Jennifer’s Law
Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
“I am a family law attorney. I kept hearing about...
Published 05/31/24
In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to stepmom Tikeetha. Tikeetha has one child, and her partner has two children, one of which is an adult and no longer living at home. Both of their teenage children have lost their other parent. Tikeetha and her partner decided to get married but have not moved in together yet but plan to in the future.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Choosing to get married but live sep
Having an autistic child in the...
Published 05/24/24
In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about struggles blended families often face when it comes to Graduation ceremonies. Unfortunately, most kids are given a limited number of tickets and it can often cause issues within the family, even a nuclear family! But you add the blend… and whew! Hang on!
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Graduation Tickets
One upping your ex
Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
“I joined the Nacho Kids...
Published 05/17/24
In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about some of the struggles stepmoms have with Mother’s Day. Mother’s Day is hard for a lot of people. Whether it be stepmoms, those who could never have children or have lost children, bio moms, or those who don’t have good relationships with their bio moms.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Stepmom expectations
Mother’s Day recognition for stepmoms
Stepmom's Day but no Stepdad's Day
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Published 05/10/24
In this episode, Lori Sims, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to stepmom Veronica Andrews. Veronica is the author of “Heal Stepmom Burnout”. She has been blending for 15 years, has two stepkids, and is child-free by choice.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Changes in custody time
Losing yourself
Finding the balance
Stepmom burnout
Wanting what is best for the kids
Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
“My stepkid is 20 years old. Does nothing but lay on...
Published 05/03/24
In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about stepfamily vacations. If you have ever been on a blended family vacation, you know how stressful they can be! Lori & David talk about challenges and tips to help have a good blended family vacation.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
Preparing for stepfamily vacations
Expectations
Separate vacations with kids
Separate vacations adults only
Length matters
Nacho Kids Academy...
Published 04/26/24
In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to stepcouple Jenn and Zeb. They have been blending for three years, and married six months. The hardest part of the blend for Zeb is establishing and maintaining stepmom’s role within the blend and Jenn’s hardest part is figuring out her place and role within the blend.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
What’s the stepparent role
Who is responsible for the stepkid
Stepkid calling stepmom “Mom”
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Published 04/19/24