Episodes
Listen to this to.... REMEMBER who God designed you to be and to understand the VALUE of a woman  To STOP holding on for dear life for someone who doesn't put in any EFFORT TO EARN YOU To understand WHY the feminine is meant to be in a position of CHOOSING who is worthy of her heart not for her to be GIVING it to any old anybody WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to get access to Dating Apps 101 the masterclass shhhh it hasn't been released to the public yet but i'm quietly dropping it here...
Published 04/18/24
Published 04/18/24
It's... been a while hasn't it bestie?! Well I have an AMAZING episode for you ALL about why it's been so hard for you to "know your worth" and why you should focus on knowing your VALUE instead. Your VALUE in general AND your VALUE in dating, relationships, marriage, work, your business etc, Tell a friend to tell a friend that i'm back!! WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to apply for 1:1 coaching on dating/relationships If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the...
Published 04/11/24
Tune into listen to the live replay audio of Day 3 of Elevated in Love all about the biggest mistakes I see people make when it comes to dealbreakers in dating and relationships WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to enroll in Cycle 3 of Woman of Desire (begins Tuesday, February 6th!) The premiere group program for ambitious women who are ready to go from feeling frustrated, hopeless, and confused to secure and confident in dating and relationships CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4...
Published 02/01/24
There's a THIN LINE between EXPECTATIONS and STANDARDS and knowing which is which is the difference between experiencing DISAPPOINTMENT in dating and actually experiencing what you WANT in dating. Listen in to this week's episode to find out more! CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to apply for...
Published 01/25/24
If you've found yourself landing in situationship after situationship...  Or if you've felt the need to SPEED the dating process up or have felt anxious about "where things are going" this episode is FOR YOU! CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to apply for 1:1 personal coaching and-- BIRTHDAY...
Published 01/18/24
Dating is NOT supposed to be hard. It gets to be EASY. Tune in to find out what 5 things I would be doing if I were single in 2024 and looking for a SERIOUS, committed relationship. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence WORK WITH BEATRICE:  Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching CONNECT WITH...
Published 01/11/24
CLICK HERE TO CATCH THE CHRISTMAS BLOWOUT SALE AND GET 10 MASTERCLASSES FOR $99- ENDS 12/22/23 WORK WITH BEATRICE:  Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau 
Published 12/21/23
What if feelings of unworthiness aren't really your problem when it comes to actually experiencing the kind of relationship you desire? What if there's something TOTALLY different to consider instead? Tune into this week's episode to find out what exactly that is... CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE WAITLIST AND GET ACCESS TO THE BIGGEST SALE OF THE YEAR: BEATRICE'S CHRISTMAS BLOWOUT SALE WORK WITH BEATRICE:  Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching Listen to OFF THE...
Published 12/14/23
Yup, you read correctly! My boyfriend and I decided to be celibate until marriage 2 years into our relationship. Why you may ask? Tune into the episode to find out! WORK WITH BEATRICE:  Head over to my website to apply for 1:1 personal or business coaching Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship and how we handle arguments, disagreements, the masculine + feminine dynamic in our relationship and MORE: https://beatricekamau.com/otr  ...
Published 12/07/23
If you've ever felt like something is wrong with YOU because you keep attracting the SAME types of men over and over again... Men who are emotionally unavailable... Men who are not interested in commitment... Men who are unfaithful... etc. There's actually something DEEPER to the story. It's not that you're doomed. Or that something is wrong with you. It's that you may have an UNCONSCIOUS dating pattern running the show and you don't even know it. Tune into this episode to learn...
Published 11/30/23
There is... a lot of immaturity in dating that shows up in the form of thinking EVERYTHING is a red flag. Not everything is a red flag. MATURITY in dating is understanding 1. That not everything is a red flag and 2. HOW to discern what IS from what ISN'T a red flag. 3. You'll have to listen to the rest of the episode to find out! ;) WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to join the Woman of Desire waitlist (Save 50% off enrollment when the pre-sale begins the week of Nov 20)  Head over to my...
Published 11/16/23
If you’re hunched over your phone with your magnifying glass out, organizing a conference call with ten of your girlfriends at once, and desperately trying to untangle whether the person you’re “talking to” wants to be in a relationship with you… He doesn’t. I say this with so much love: if you have to do this, you aren’t actually confused at all about how he feels. You know he isn’t interested in having a relationship…you just don’t like that answer. Desire is not ambiguous. Desire is...
Published 11/02/23
If you’ve given up on dating…this episode is for you. I’m not talking about the people who truly do not desire a relationship. I’m talking to the people who have a soul-deep desire for a relationship, but have gotten so discouraged that they’re ready to throw in the towel entirely. Listen to me–I don’t care what your situation is. I don’t care if you’re in your late 20s, 30s, 40s, etc. I don’t care if you’ve been divorced four times and can’t imagine a relationship ever working out. I...
Published 10/26/23
Ooooh, do I have a TREAT for you all today. I am absolutely giddy to welcome my boyfriend of two years, Osa, onto the podcast! Osa’s more of a behind-the-scenes type of guy. But today, we’re sitting down for a conversation about how we met, our first impressions of each other, what we think about online dating, how we transitioned from dating to a long-term relationship, and so much more! Not only that, but we’ve also slipped in a little teaser for something that we’re VERY excited...
Published 10/19/23
If you believe it’s IMPOSSIBLE to attract the type of man that has ambition, makes plans, and takes charge in your relationship…I may have an idea why that is. And you’re probably not going to like hearing it. Once upon a time, I was in the same shoes as you: fed up with attracting men who wouldn’t so much as initiate a phone call, sick of having to do ALL the work in every relationship, and wondering where all the ambitious men were. But you know what else I believed? That men were dumb...
Published 10/12/23
There’s one stage of new relationships that no one talks about. We try to pretend it doesn’t happen. In fact, we do one better (or worse): we usually dip out of the relationship the second we enter this phase. The first phase of any new relationship is the honeymoon phase…and it is POWERFUL. That cocktail of hormones hits HARD. We’re floating on cloud nine. All we see in front of us is our perfect, amazing partner. Everything they do is so cute and sweet and amazing… Until it isn’t. ...
Published 10/05/23
If you’re walking around telling yourself “I DESERVE a relationship…” Sit down for a second. Let’s talk. I say this because I love you: you do not “deserve” a relationship.  You don’t deserve anything from another individual just because you want it.  Imagine if you walked into a job interview. You did no prep. You did no research. You wore your sweats. And when they start asking you questions, you just go, “What do you mean? Why are you asking me this? I deserve this job. Just give it to...
Published 09/28/23
“God must be out to get me.” “This must be some kind of cosmic joke.” “You know what? Fine. I don’t want a relationship anyway.” “I’m focusing on my career. I don’t need a man.” If any of these sound familiar, then this episode is for you. If you’re the kind of person who truly enjoys being single…good for you! But if you’re saying you’re fine with being single, then absolutely SEETHING with anger and bitterness every time you see a happy couple… I don’t think you’re being honest with...
Published 09/21/23
I love delving into the shadowy parts of ourselves that no one likes to talk about…comparison being one of them. We all compare ourselves to others. We all feel envious of someone else’s successes, both in business and in relationships…especially when they’re in the same industry as us. And I don’t think these experiences are wrong…but when we lie about it to ourselves and refuse to OWN what we’re thinking and feeling, that’s when it becomes a problem. When we try to pretend we aren’t...
Published 09/14/23
Let me ask you a question… What is BRAND? If you answered, “Colors, fonts, and logos”...no judgment here. There was a hot minute when I believed the very same. In actuality, these things are brandING, not BRAND. But when so many people start out in entrepreneurship, they come in business-minded, not brand-minded…and when they look for steps to skip, brandING can take the place of actual brand. If you’re just now learning you were wrong about brand, don’t panic–that’s why I’m having this...
Published 09/07/23
Please join me in welcoming Tayla Bubeck, an INCREDIBLE business coach + mentor…in fact, she’s so incredible that she’s MY business coach + mentor! Tayla specializes in the human behind the business, the execution of strategy for a scalable business, and leveraging personal brands to maximize opportunities and evolution. She helps powerful players in the online world unleash their unique gifts and full potential in business and helps them create a business space where money and success...
Published 08/31/23
Evolve is the FREE event where you learn to RELEASE GENERATIONAL CYCLES OF REPRESSED SELF EXPRESSION AND EVOLVE BEYOND LIVING A LIFE CONSUMED WITH OTHERS THOUGHTS OF YOU   In Day Four we discussed evolving BEYOND perfectionism + fear of being seen being your BIGGEST problem so that you can step into your PURPOSE, LEGACY, + IMPACT you're meant to bring forth into this world   This event is an EVENT of a lifetime. There is simply nothing like it.   THIS EVENT WAS GENERATIONALLY...
Published 08/29/23
This week's episode we have an amazing guest and Self Trust Alchemy Alum, Taccarra Davenport. In this episode, we chat about how she transcended PERFECTIONISM, fear of using her voice, + imposter syndrome during Self Trust Alchemy and published her new book, A Letter To My Sister.   This is an incredible and INSPIRING episode you DON'T want to miss!   Follow Taccarra over on IG: https://www.instagram.com/taccarra_renee Tacarra's website: www.taccarra.com Tacarra's...
Published 08/25/23
Evolve the FREE event is where you learn to RELEASE GENERATIONAL CYCLES OF REPRESSED SELF EXPRESSION AND EVOLVE BEYOND LIVING A LIFE CONSUMED WITH OTHERS THOUGHTS OF YOU     In Day Two we discussed CONNECTION TO THE BODY, to the feminine, and SAFETY IN VULNERABILITY. This was a POWERFUL conversation where we spoke about the SURRENDER to the mystery, the elusiveness of the feminine-- of our intuition and emotions WITHOUT SHITTING ON OURSELVES or making things a "problem" in the process.   ...
Published 08/23/23