We like 'em big...and we like to do things in 3's. So for this episode we stitched together a 3-part series, layered with our usual smexiness, to give you something that’s a little longer ...for your ears! Ladies of the Lifestyle was originally released as 1.Two Or More To Tango’s Ep 31; 2. Swinger Diaries’ Ep 78; and 3. Average Swingers’ Ep 115 So if you've ever wanted to hear the girl-talk when the women get together and talk about what they talk about when there's no guys around, here's...

Ready for more mischief? This is Part 2 of our NIN2019 recap. We take you inside the Plus One Room at Naughty N'awlins lifestyle convention, inside the play space available to help make your Hot Wife Fantasies a very enjoyable reality. Find out what you'll get... and what you won't, when you encounter these Fellaz. We'll tell you about our experience, and yes, their size, stamina, strength and skills. Hours of fun when Soul finds the mammoth man and Tori delights in the beautiful penis!

It's our 2nd time at NIN, and the delicious debauchery is just too big to all fit in at one time, so we're giving it to you in 2 parts! Get excited and get ready to have the time of your life at the largest couples lifestyle convention in the world. NIN takes over a hotel in the French Quarter, and Bourbon Street, and we'll tell you all about what happens. We start in the wee hours of the morning, after a record-breaking time with an incredible gentleman who definitely checked all the boxes....

Being Black in the Swinging Lifestyle, in an almost predominantly White community, is a different experience, and in this mini-episode we share a conversation about the importance of feeling represented, in support of the Black N Kinky Lifestyle Podcast's initiative to celebrate, acknowledge and promote the voice of People of Colour, and Black couples, in particular. This is often absent from the conversation about swinging so we are honoured to support this voice and give others a different...

Austin, TX. Circa Summer 2019. We're with Average Swingers and Wanderlust Swingers Podcasts to attend Butts, Boobs & Boats. While exploring this incredible city, we find a military man in the crowd, in the middle of 6th Street, in the middle of the night, in the most perfect way. The connection is obviously mutual, and well, since it's Tori's birthday, we choreograph a present of multi-orgasmic birthday sex for her. In this episode, we recount this sexcapade and, of course, share our...

In this episode, we go back to our very 1st time being interviewed. Two Or More To Tango invited us, this new-on-the-scene, same-sex female couple, to their show. We were so new, we didn't even have any episodes! (Only promises.) With permission, we are re-releasing their Ep24: An Interview with Torrid Souls, and sandwiching it between the usual Tori and Soul banter you enjoy. Enjoy this fusion episode as a change of pace from our last 2 action-packed episodes. This time you'll get a more...

Ever fantasized about a Gang Bang? At Club M4 it's a reality called Ladies Choice. An event that allows women to choreograph their ultimate multiple-partner fantasy. It's Summer 2019, and Soul is one of their special guests. Think Speed-Dating - an opportunity to introduce yourself for a chance to play. As the Spotter, Tori ensures that the rules are respected. Strap yourselves in, press play and enjoy this fast-paced full recount of a sexy, sensual and slippery cocks-galore event that ended...

Las Vegas! Legendary. Infamous. Outrageous. And when you're Tori & Soul and you have a podcast, what happens in Vegas will surely not stay in Vegas. In this super-hot-sexy-drunk episode, we spend 3 weeks DOING Vegas. We did Fusion Vegas, Dirty Vegas, The Strip, the Desert, Old Vegas and Freemont Street. And before leaving Las Vegas we've confirmed that those rumours of debauchery ARE true! Expect excessive indulgence, wickedness in a vanilla bar, a Taxi Orgy, Hooters, and 3 worn out...

This episode is a super playful, candid, boobs-on-the-table REMIX with the feisty Priory Society. Following the events of our EP19: "Thank You, Next", hear how Eros and Isis try to SQUEEZE US in new ways! And for more of us chatting with others, find Normalizing Non-Monogamy EP49, Uncomfortable EP20, Two or More to Tango EP24, and EP31:Ladies of the Lifestyle PT1, Average Swingers EP108, and EP115:LOL PT2, Swinger Diaries EP78:LOL PT3, and Just Keep Swinging EP25. Each one has a different twist!

Boobies! In this episode we talk all about augmenting them! Some want bigger, others want what they once had. If you've ever considered breast augmentation and wondered what it's like, this episode is for you! Join us as we talk candidly and share the whole process with you. From the thoughts and feelings before surgery, to after surgery, when things have settled in. Find out about choosing the right type of augmentation for you, implant size and placement and even the helpful hands-on...

The perfect follow-up to our last episode. In this episode, we recap the spontaneous and super satisfying multi-orgasmic playtime we had at a private birthday party in a Victorian Mansion in Toronto. Join us in bed as we recap the successes, the morning after. What we didn't know then was that we were describing what we now know as our sexual wiring. Hear why the whole experience was such a total turn-on for Tori (an Energetic) and how Soul (a Sensual & Sexual) enjoyed one mind-blowing...

Wanna have even better sex? Wanna get what you really, really want? YES? Listeners already know that we are pretty clear about finding (and getting) what we want in the lifestyle so join us and find out how. With a quick and easy test, discover just how you are wired, and learn how to feed this pattern, and your partner's too.  We recorded this in front of a live audience at Valentine's in Niagara. VIN2020. Listen in and get yourself some muy sexy results.

Warning: This is a feel-good-filled-with-an-insanely-sexy-amount-of-fun episode. It's our 1st anniversary episode. The 1st anniversary of our podcast, and our 1st wedding anniversary too! In this episode we're at Temptation Cancun Resort and have our 1st spontaneous repeat-worthy experience. We spend 3, of the last 4 nights, with the same guy! (Yes, he was that good!) It's the morning after session #3. We're f**k-drunk, and still in bed, talking about our spicy and adventurous Temptation...

We're in San Diego. We've made plans to meet up with a hot, single guy. Great profile on Kasidie. We text back and forth. Excitement builds. We set the day, time, and place to meet. Drinks it is! We're getting ready. The phone dings. It's him! (30 minutes before we are to meet) "Sorry, I made other plans."...WTF! We just got dumped! Who does this? Why? No one enjoys rejection and Tori is hit hard by this. This time it's Soul to the emotional rescue. Find out how we still rise from the ashes...

Toronto, with its 5 lifestyle clubs, is the sex club capital of North America. In this episode we chose The O Zone. The perfect place to go to dance the night away or be sexy (or both). We explore a few "firsts". It was our debut of taking a date to a club - checking in as a trio - and a few other sexy firsts. We tour through our favourite Toronto area nightclub-style lifestyle club, and share our adventures with our repeat-worthy playfriend, Batman! Buckle up, as we share more sexy...

You've discovered the lifestyle. Yaaa! Someone in the relationship is curious (and brave enough) to want to explore sexuality in a new way. The tricky part is that we each have desires that are as unique as we are. How do you support your partner with something that is on the top of their list when it isn't even on your list? This Car Talk episode explores how partners can support one another in what truly pleases them. Discover how this crazy love can bring you closer.

In this episode, we share what it's really like from the perspective of a bi guy, a bi gal and as a bi couple. We're in Austin Texas, and we meet up with Jamal, from The Everything Sexy Show and The 2nd Cuming Show, for our 1st-ever interview. Jamal is a rarity - an openly bisexual man in the lifestyle. He tells us what's so amazing (and challenging) about being a bi guy. We also talk DP, DVP, consent, and what else to do when you can't get it up,...and find out just what a bi gal would...

Like life, the Lifestyle has different vibes and tribes. Some people you jive with, and just as often, you will encounter those who don't. Some are strictly interested in having as much sex as possible. Some will take time to get to know you before getting to sex. Regardless, being approached by those who don't match your vibe can be discouraging. In this episode we discuss the importance of knowing that, even here, feeling successful at finding others to play with is all about resonating.

Many women don't want the tacky label of "cougar", yet some women are attracted to the energy of a playful younger guy who can go all night, and some younger men get a sexual high from a confident hottie. In this episode we try an organized event that pays tribute to the beauty and sex appeal of women, and the younger men who enjoy this dynamic. It's Cougars & Cubs night at Oasis. WARNING: Avoid operating machinery while listening to this episode due to a potential safety hazard of...

Valentines In Niagara: A hotel takeover with 100s of sexy couples wanting to explore the naughty side of their sexuality. A weekend of workshops, themed dances and pool parties. We record live, in our hotel room, with Swinger Diaries, Monogamish Marriage, and a few lucky listeners. We talk podcasting, squirting, the benefits (and surprises) of the lifestyle; You will never see Niagara Falls the same way again. Also get an update on what happened when we, as a couple, were denied entrance to...

We're at it again... in the car! In this episode we go long and deep! We tell you all the sexy details of VIN Couples Convention, the largest lifestyle event of it's kind in Canada. A complete hotel takeover featuring a non-stop weekend of seminars, workshops, themed dances, pool parties and hundreds of like-minded couples exploring the naughty side of their sexuality. Consider this episode as the foreplay to our next episode - the conversational orgy recorded live during Valentines in Niagara.

Toronto, with 5 lifestyle clubs, is the sex club capital of North America. In this episode we go to Oasis AquaLounge. A perfect place to chill out and get sexy. We had a specific mission that night. Soul had finally decided on surgery so this was to be an homage to the tatas. An ending, and a new beginning. Then, a goodbye became a surprising hello when a playfriend, who had been MIA for almost a year, walks in. He said he was out of the game (serious with his girlfriend). Find out why he was...

Truth be told this episode was a challenge for us - to record and to edit. Disappointment is not a happy topic. It's never easy. In this episode Soul interviews Tori in the usual raw, unscripted and candid Torrid Souls way. Hear what dark emotions come up after our first majorly disappointing escapade. We chat about assumptions and intimacy and the importance of having a voice, speaking up when things aren't going as planned. And we talk about the lesson in all of this... ultimately, to be...

What's next in the adventures of Tori & Soul? Another booty call attempt, that's what! Our last episode was about our successful and first-ever booty call. This time, without any "repeat-worthy" playfriends available, we try a posting on our local LS site. What we get makes us LOL. Listen as we react to what we find when people, completely new to us, respond thinking they are perfect for us. Hint: Just having a penis is NOT enough. Tori loses all rationale & discretion when Soul...