HOW TO BECOME SPECIFIC IN OUR WANTS. ''When you start saying what you really want, your mind automatically shifts to pull you in that direction. Give your vocabulary a positive makeover to speak your dreams into existence.'' ⁣ For those of you who have followed me for a while and who have read my posts with consistency, then you’ll know that I’m a big believer in the power of words - and therefore also a big believer of this quote. ⁣ ⁣ But sometimes, it can be difficult to narrow down what we really want (because there’s so many great opportunities out there) and therefore we get confused and loose direction along our way. ⁣ ⁣ If you know this feeling, then I have a really simple tool which is super effective and great in helping us become specific in our wants. Here it comes: ⁣ ⁣ 1. Write down all the different things you want ⁣ ⁣ 2. Organise them in a prioritised order ⁣ ⁣ 3. Agree with yourself to only choose 10 of them in total ⁣ ⁣ 4. Then agree with yourself to only choose five ⁣ ⁣ 5. When you have your five wants on your list then do this: focus on one want at the time and compare it to each other want and ask yourself ‘which one do I want to keep on my list the most?’ ⁣ ⁣ 6. Continue to do this with all of your wants⁣ ⁣ 7. Until you have only one or two wants left⁣ ⁣ 8. Now focus on them, and by a constant awareness apply them in your vocabulary on a daily basis. ⁣ ⁣ 9. Also do some visualisations to make yourself believe in your own words and wants even more ⁣ ⁣ 10. Wait and see. I’m convinced that you eventually will start to speak your dreams into existence⁣ ⁣ Once you’ve made a active decision on turning your want into a dream coming true, then your mind and your heart will help you find a way. Good luck! xx J ⁣ ⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣** DM/EMAIL me if you need help with making your dreams come true. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ @xxjasminsoe / www.xxjasminsoe.com