36 episodes

Simple, accessible and accurate, this series exposes the specific moves used by Abusers to lure in and trap their partners in toxic relationships. Find out how to recognize Abusers' ploys and tricks from the earliest stages of a new relationship, along with the crucial knowledge necessary to break free and stay safe. This is genuine domestic violence prevention - currently the only program in the world that details Abusers' devious manipulation tactics. Since 2007, Dr. Dina McMillan has been offering 'Unmasking the Abuser' as a series of workshops and seminars. Now she's offering this key knowledge online, free. This information is appropriate for ages 13 and above.

Unmasking the Abuser - The Podcast Dina McMillan, Ph.D.

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 26 Ratings

Simple, accessible and accurate, this series exposes the specific moves used by Abusers to lure in and trap their partners in toxic relationships. Find out how to recognize Abusers' ploys and tricks from the earliest stages of a new relationship, along with the crucial knowledge necessary to break free and stay safe. This is genuine domestic violence prevention - currently the only program in the world that details Abusers' devious manipulation tactics. Since 2007, Dr. Dina McMillan has been offering 'Unmasking the Abuser' as a series of workshops and seminars. Now she's offering this key knowledge online, free. This information is appropriate for ages 13 and above.

    Episode 35 - The First 30 Days

    Episode 35 - The First 30 Days

    Some of the most crucial information about abusive relationships is how they start. What are they like at the very beginning? Most victims and survivors don't recognize the manipulation that happened at the start. That's why this can be a key to preventing new victims in the future.

    This episode provides a general overview of the manipulative moves and maneuvers that are used most often - and most successfully - to entice a new target into a relationship with an Abuser.

    This is one episode no one should skip.

    This is the podcast series that does so much more than entertain. It's designed to help you develop your manipulation superpower. Simply and effectively, you'll learn how to spot any attempts to unfairly persuade, influence or indoctrinate you. You'll be able to identify it accurately and early. In a world of propaganda and disinformation, you can know more and do more. Have a listen.

    • 32 min
    Episode 34 - Oops! I Did It Again! The Valentine's Day Chapter

    Episode 34 - Oops! I Did It Again! The Valentine's Day Chapter

    Important Valentine's Day Episode - no roses required.

    Most of our episodes are about choosing a better romantic partner. This episode is all about YOU, whether you're female or male, in a relationship or single. It guides you as you identify any beliefs or behaviors that are holding you back, causing you or your partner pain.  It helps expose the mistakes you repeat - no matter how much you promise that you won't - that may be keeping you from manifesting your happily-ever-after.

    The steps will get you started on substantially improving your relationships, romantic and otherwise.  These key insights will also help you sharpen you critical thinking and reinforce your manipulation-proof superpower. 

    Your efforts can work quickly to maximize intimacy and closeness. If you're single, you'll be more attractive to the person you desire as a Forever Partner.

    Simple and effective as always. Feel free to grab a box of chocolates and have a listen.

    This is the podcast series that does so much more than entertain. It's designed to help you develop your manipulation superpower. Simply and effectively, you'll learn how to spot any attempts to unfairly persuade, influence or indoctrinate you. You'll be able to identify it accurately and early. In a world of propaganda and disinformation, you can know more and do more. Have a listen.

    • 35 min
    Episode 33: I Want You Back!

    Episode 33: I Want You Back!

    This is one of the most important Episodes we've done. Inspired by a request from a podcast audience member, this Episode explores the tricks and maneuvers used to entice a mistreated partner to return to an abusive relationship.

    How is it done? What does it take for someone who's fed up and perhaps deeply afraid to dive back into a highly volatile and even dangerous situation? What strings are Abusers most likely to pull? 

    Are there ways to tell if someone is genuinely trying to heal and change - or just pretending to get their partner to return?

    Find out here - whether you need the key protection strategies for yourself or someone you love.

    This is the podcast series that does so much more than entertain. It's designed to help you develop your manipulation superpower. Simply and effectively, you'll learn how to spot any attempts to unfairly persuade, influence or indoctrinate you. You'll be able to identify it accurately and early. In a world of propaganda and disinformation, you can know more and do more. Have a listen.

    • 38 min
    Episode 32: Surviving Family Gatherings - A Holiday Special

    Episode 32: Surviving Family Gatherings - A Holiday Special

    This short podcast needs to be bookmarked and saved somewhere convenient. It contains key tips for emotional survival during the holiday season - or any time your family gets together. If you have a volatile partner, a difficult relative, a troublesome partner of a relative, don't go into their lair without protecting yourself. That's what this Episode is all about.

    All always, the crucial tips are simple, accessible and effective. Be prepared as you head into the holidays, so your day isn't ruined. 

    This is the podcast series that does so much more than entertain. It's designed to help you develop your manipulation superpower. Simply and effectively, you'll learn how to spot any attempts to unfairly persuade, influence or indoctrinate you. You'll be able to identify it accurately and early. In a world of propaganda and disinformation, you can know more and do more. Have a listen.

    • 21 min
    Episode 31: Exposing a Secret Danger

    Episode 31: Exposing a Secret Danger

    This is still the only podcast series that exposes the specific tactics used by Abusers to lure in and trap romantic partners. It offers rare insight into manipulation that's relevant everywhere in your life, not only in romance.

    But have you ever wondered if we've missed something - another risk factor that could be significant?

    In this explosive episode, we discuss a crucial danger that's backed by decades of research yet seems to remain a relative secret. It's unknown by most people going about their lives and even by those who work in the field of domestic and family violence. 

    Yet, this factor TRIPLES the risk of having abuse in a relationship. 

    It's time to reveal the mystery. Have a listen to this 30-minute podcast as this secret is exposed and explained. 

    This is the podcast series that does so much more than entertain. It's designed to help you develop your manipulation superpower. Simply and effectively, you'll learn how to spot any attempts to unfairly persuade, influence or indoctrinate you. You'll be able to identify it accurately and early. In a world of propaganda and disinformation, you can know more and do more. Have a listen.

    • 30 min
    Episode 30 - An Exciting Journey through a Lived Experience with A. Garcia

    Episode 30 - An Exciting Journey through a Lived Experience with A. Garcia

    I'm always learning. This episode is an incredible shared experience with A. Garcia, a woman who's experienced severe abuse and violence.  She decided to use what happened to her as a platform to help others. 

    The interview was via Zoom, not in a studio, but I promise you'll get so caught up you won't mind.

    Please listen as A. discusses what she endured, and how she is a big proponent of PTG, post-traumatic growth, that encourages us all to use our painful life events to make ourselves stronger. She also includes her contact details if you'd like to add your voice and value in a more direct manner.




    This is the podcast series that does so much more than entertain. It's designed to help you develop your manipulation superpower. Simply and effectively, you'll learn how to spot any attempts to unfairly persuade, influence or indoctrinate you. You'll be able to identify it accurately and early. In a world of propaganda and disinformation, you can know more and do more. Have a listen.

    • 52 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
26 Ratings

26 Ratings

Grateful & Hopeful ,

This information is lifesaving…

For years I have been searching for a clear explanation of the abuser-victim dynamic and how “not” to be a victim. Dr. McMillan’s advice is “it” and more. I am sharing this information with other women. If we haven’t personally experienced domestic abuse, most of us know someone who has.

Ladycakes13 ,

Too black and white, to the disservice of victims

Heard this recommended by a YouTuber I follow. While I think Dina McMillan’s observations describe clinically diagnosable narcissists and psychopaths, I don’t think all abusers fall under those categories. The tactics and manipulative strategies she describes are abusive, but there are absolutely abusers who aren’t so Machiavellian and strategic about their tactics. I don’t think she captures the nuance or reality of these situations, and it is to the disservice of women who want to avoid abusive relationships. “Good” people can be abusive, too. By painting abusers as all-or-nothing monsters, she fails to help women identify when they are being abused and should leave a relationship, even if it’s with an otherwise “good” person. —signed, a domestic abuse survivor

marie laveux ,

Looking Forward To More Podcasts

I found the podcast easy to follow. I am looking forward to more episodes.

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