143 episodes

We have a passion to be a gateway of hope for marriages. Never give up on what God can do! Whether you are married, soon to be married, or one day hope to be married, we encourage you to tune in. We desire to see all marriages in an unrelenting pursuit of love, joy, and forgiveness. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unrelentingpursuit/support

Unrelenting Pursuit Brad and Lisa Valencia

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We have a passion to be a gateway of hope for marriages. Never give up on what God can do! Whether you are married, soon to be married, or one day hope to be married, we encourage you to tune in. We desire to see all marriages in an unrelenting pursuit of love, joy, and forgiveness. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unrelentingpursuit/support

    143. Facing Your Fears - How to gain confidence and let go of control

    143. Facing Your Fears - How to gain confidence and let go of control

    So often, fear can take us down a road that leaves us crippled, trying to be prepared for all scenarios and in control. But that control is an illusion, and instead fear ends up robbing us of our present, and of our future.

    Stand in God's truth for your life and have confidence in who He is and what He can do.

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/0BMxsQwDhT6BeouLw12ADC?si=hwGjNrh5TZuuv1CgvQabjg



    As always, we want to hear from you. If you want additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. We would love to be a part of your growth and healing in marriage. You can also email us @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    • 50 min
    142. Part 2 - Practical Steps to Protect Your Marriage

    142. Part 2 - Practical Steps to Protect Your Marriage

    The reality is that every marriage faces stress, and the first responder world has some additional stressors to navigate. HOW you navigate those, who you turn to, your relationship with Christ, how you listen, how you die to self, and how you handle the adrenaline rush will determine the direction of your marriage. Don't be a statistic. You are easily replaceable in your job but not in your home.

    As always, we want to hear from you. If you want additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. We would love to be a part of your growth and healing in marriage. You can also email us @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    • 1 hr 9 min
    141. How Your Job impacts Your Marriage - A look into the first responder world

    141. How Your Job impacts Your Marriage - A look into the first responder world

    The first responder world is riddled with a high divorce rate, and constant variables that contribute to an unhealthy marriage.

    We dive into our own experience in this realm as both a team member and spouse, and offer some insight to help protect and bring hope to your marriage.



    Links: https://thinblue1st.org/mission-%26-vision

    https://digitalcommons.liberty.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1218&context=honors



    As always, we want to hear from you. If you want additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. We would love to be a part of your growth and healing in marriage. You can also email us @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    • 1 hr 10 min
    140. Saying Yes to God - What does it look like to take the next right step?

    140. Saying Yes to God - What does it look like to take the next right step?

    We were so honored to have our daughter on this episode as she shares what saying yes to God has done in your life.

    There were so many truths that emerged throughout this conversation for your faith, life, and marriage. When God asks you to say yes to something, don't practice delayed obedience, and when He asks you to let go, don't hold on.

    Life is a series of these decisions and God's grace is evident in how He reveals each next step. Follow His peace, His voice, and His Word. Don't settle...

    To follow Aubree's missionary adventures: https://www.instagram.com/argentina__adventures/

    As always, we want to hear from you. If you want additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. We would love to be a part of your growth and healing in marriage. You can also email us @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    • 1 hr 4 min
    139. A Year of Firsts - How to navigate through the anniversaries of the hard things in life

    139. A Year of Firsts - How to navigate through the anniversaries of the hard things in life

    This is a discussion we had never had before this episode.

    We openly wrestle through what it looks like to hold both joy and pain together at the same time, and allow you to hear the perspective of both of us and what it looked like to navigate through the first year after our breach in trust.

    Ultimately, we encourage you to lean into a perspective that changes the outlook of your future and not to let the pain override the promise.

    As always, we want to hear from you. If you want additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. We would love to be a part of your growth and healing in marriage. You can also email us @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    • 54 min
    138. Obstacles to Better Sex in Your Marriage

    138. Obstacles to Better Sex in Your Marriage

    There are many things that can create obstacles to great sex in your marriage. These include your memories, communication, past trauma, libido, age, changes, stressors, insecurities, and addiction. There are many obstacles, but there is such hope! God can redeem, heal, and restore this area.

    Don't let anything stop you from reclaiming ground in this area and doing what it takes to get help, whether that requires counseling, coaching, getting hormones aligned, stepping out of your comfort zone, or vulnerability.

    Here is a great article and further information on this topic: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/dealing-with-common-challenges-in-the-bedroom/

    As always, we want to hear from you. If you want additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resources...please go and visit our website @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. We would love to be a part of your growth and healing in marriage. You can also email us @⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠info@unrelentingpursuit.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    • 1 hr 1 min

Customer Reviews

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237 Ratings

237 Ratings

Janaearn ,

Don’t move until God says so

I actually sent a dm recently and surprisingly, got a reply right away. I was angry, mad at my husband for not immediately repenting of his sins and wanting me 1000%. We had been listening to your podcast since January after I found out some very devastating news. I wanted to fix it. He accepted Jesus into his heart in February but then life and stress just continued to make the fight harder and our hearts got hardened faster than I ever thought. We were at a breaking point and I wrote you. You said to not move until God says so. I was irritated at first, not going to lie, I’m a stubborn trauma nurse who says things on her mind. Then I continued to read the words over and over and say them in my heart after working night shifts, while driving home. I was furious when my husband left without saying bye (I assumed to go train someone, he’s a personal trainer). Then I realized it was our church’s baptism and I was even more angry when I decided to drive by church to see if his motorcycle was there! He wouldn’t decide to get baptized without telling me would he?! I saw his motorcycle in the upper parking lot and let me tell you, God completely softened my heart by the time I went to the lower parking lot. I knew I had to find him! As soon as I finally found him (there were over 150 people getting baptized), he broke down and I hugged him. Probably the best hug we’ve ever had to date, because at that moment both of our hearts were softened. I called off to work and got to see my very best friend get baptized. He didn’t want to tell me because he had felt he needed to do it for himself and not as an “attempt” to win me back. God is good. And you telling me don’t move until God says so was exactly what I needed. We have a long way to go but I’m so proud of my husband in making this personal step. Thank you for always being raw and going through good and bad times so we can go through them together. And p.s. I love how nothing is rehearsed and it’s if we are hanging out in our living room!

mercedes (: ,

Most Amazing, Funny, & Authentic Marriage Podcast

I absolutely love listening to Brad and Lisa. I am so incredibly thankful for their story and for their mission to help heal marriages. I love how funny, real, and comfortable they are with each other. You can really hear the love that they have for one another in the show. It’s truly so genuine because they’re each so strong in their individual walks with God. My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years & have 3 kids. We suffered from infidelity. God saved not only us as a couple but our family as a whole by restoring our marriage. I look forward to every new episode! Brad and Lisa have inspired me in so many ways. Not only to be a better wife, but how to also be the the best example for our kids and to trust in God with all of my heart. Learning the importance of nurturing my relationship with God has helped me to heal immensely. Thank you both so much for all that you do. 🙏🏻

UT_SG247 ,

Great Insight/Real Talk

Last year (feb 2023) we split up, we were on the verge of divorce. Our marriage was a mess - mainly because of my mistakes and transgressions. During our split I somehow stumbled on a reel on Instagram of Brad telling his story. It resonated. I started listening & my wife then started listening. I feel like this podcast opened up a dialogue between us to help us begin discussing our issues and start to reconcile our marriage. It gave us hope. Listening to Brad and Lisa felt like we were talking to someone who truly understood our situation.

Fast forward to today, about a year later. After some very constructive therapy sessions, a lot of podcast listening, being in the scriptures every evening together, praying every night together, a lot of hard conversations and a ton of hard work we're doing amazing. Our marriage has never been better. I know that doubling down on our faith and inviting God in to our marriage has been the catalyst that has made the difference send helped us heal and reconcile. We've truly witnessed a miracle unfold right in front of us. We've both been changed by God's grace.

Thank you Brad and Lisa for showing us how to open that door and invite the Lord in to our relationship. Thank you for the example you set. Thank you for being open and honest. We're now expecting a new baby this summer. As you begin your walk with Christ, anything is possible.

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