We are encouraged to serve others or be in service to others.  Could it be a superior point of view?  What if being of service means you see yourself or them as less than? What if allowing someone to create their own way out of a problem is the kindest thing? What if contribution is different than service and you could be aware of what works and what is the kindest for you and others?  Join me as I talk about this with tips and tools to discover what works best for you.