Episode 133: You're So Defensive! (The Four Horsemen Part 2)

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This is our second episode in our series on Gottman’s 4 horseman as we tackle to the topic of defensiveness. When the horse of defensiveness is running wild in our marriage, we go into self-protection mode and take responsibility for our behavior. In this episode we’re sharing our struggle with defensiveness and some of the ways to combat it. Gottmans' Four Horsemen: Defensiveness To connect with us on social media: Facebook Instagram behindoursmiles.com wowgod.com Email: [email protected]

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